Craigslist Experience #9

My first CD (Cross Dressing) experience: 

So, one Sunday evening, I'm just home watching TV, and drinking some beers, and I decide to check out the Craig'slist posts. I don't even know why. I had already jacked off that day, and really wasn't horny. Craigslist had become "routine entertainment" I guess.

So the first post I see says this.

> NOW - 21 (Comfort Inn by Airport)
> Reply to: pers-nsxxg-1233206119@craigslist.org
>
>
> I am super horned up....non-passable CD that wants my first anal experience NOW....I have given >head before but not to completion....I want to do it all now!!!! I am 21...ddf....non-passable...but >dressed up already for u to come....u come lube me up i blow u fuck my ass you face fuck me, and >give me facial and u leave....u need to be able to come to me hwp....willing to be my first, and DDF >send pic and i will give u my hotel room number!!!!
>

Here is what I responded with:

Hey, I've been drinking beer and hanging out reading these CL posts. I don't know why, but your's gave me a boner.
I'm older, and have topped once, but it didn't work out well,  but it would be cool to give it a go with you. I don't have a big dick, so maybe that would make it easier.
I live close to the airport, so I could make it quick.
What do you say, want to be my little girl?
Jack.


So, he (she?) wrote back:
how big is ur dick, and have u ever been with a man before?
still interested?

So I responded:
yah, I'm still here. I've tried twice to send additional pics, but it's not working...

So he said:
i am waiting on someone else right now to see what he says but u might just get my room number in about 10 minutes!

so u can bring some porn too there is a dvd in my room if you want to have straight stuff going...and one last questions....have u ever fooled around with another guy

And I responded:
Sorry, I had to re-boot computer, but it still won't work. I
have hooked up with 8 guys on CL, but I'm still pretty new. Tried to be a top once.
Be patient with me. Still interested.....

He said:
yeah room 131...i can be patient if u can be ;)

I said:
See you soon. I hope you're wearing something hot and sexy.

His final reply:

From: michelle smith
To: jack

i don't have any porn but would u bring a condom if u get this


I don't know what came over me. I never respond to ads posted by 21 year olds. What's the point? Plus, I am not attracted to cross dressers, and I've only tried to give anal once, and it was a disaster. I guess that I figured since it was his first time, he wouldn't know the difference. When I replied, told him I was older, but didn't say how old, and included a picture. He could guess my age from that.

I got my condoms and KY that I purchased for my first trial anal disaster, and put them in my pocket. I also took a beer and put it in the pocket of my cargo pants.

I found the hotel, and his room. There was a couple standing in the doorway of the room directly across the hall. I sure didn't want them there when a dude in woman's clothing answered the door. Luckily they left, and "Buzzcut" answered the door.

Oh my heck! Buzzcut was cute, and had a great body. Not too skinny, and not at all fat. Black buzzed hair, he wore glasses, but he was cute. He had on a fishnet stockings, a bikini bottom and a swim suit top that didn't match.

What ever floats your boat. Actually, the fishnet stockings were kind of sexy.

I told Buzzcut he looked sexy, and I was nervous, and he told me his limits. No biting and no scat.

 No problem..

I felt him up, got under the top, pinched his nipples and caressed his crotch on the outside. He rubbed mine as well. "lay down." He invited. Take off the bottoms I instructed. He did.

He unfastened my pants and slipped them down. I was getting a boner. I sat back on the bed and adjusted the pillows, and he started to suck me. When things were going good I thought about the fucking part. This time I was going to do something different. I was going to try and stick my finger in his ass first and get it somewhat looser.

I told him to spin around to give me access to his cute brown ass, and told him to hand me my shorts. I think he knew I going was after lube, because he said he had some on the nightstand. I was laying on my back and he was straddling me in a 69 position and while he was blowing me, I poured some lube in his ass crack. Too much. It kind of ran down and got me in the neck. I started rubbing his ass hole pucker, and pressing in my thumb. To my surprise, it went right in. I thought I better go for more than just my thumb, so I then exchanged it for my index finger, and then a second finger as well. All was going along fine. No problem. So I said....are you ready now?

He said he was, if I was. I told him to get a condom from the pocket of my cargo shorts. He did, and he rolled it onto my hard dick. I told him again I hadn't really done this and for him to tell me what to do, and tell me if it hurt or anything.

He got on all fours and stuck his beautiful boy-butt in the air. I had to tell him to lower it. I got the head of my dick at the entrance to his hole and rubbed it around a bit. I could feel it wanting to go in. I kind of worked it in like I was fucking a chick, and when it popped in, he winced, and I asked "Slower?" "Yah." So I went super slow. His butt was so hot. Yes, hot sexy, but hot temperature-wise too. "You can go faster now." He said. In no time at all I was burying it to the hilt. He moaned a littl, said he liked it and stuff like that.

I leaned over and really wanted to bite his neck for some reason, but one of his limits was "no marks" which of course I can respect. So, I nibbled on his ear, and whispered nasty stuff to him, and then reached under and stroked his beautiful dick, as I fucked his ass.

This went on for only a few minutes when he said "I'm gonna cum" It was just louder than a whisper. I said "no, wait, don't come yet" but his hand went for his dick, and I knew he was past the point of no return, so I kept fucking his ass and reached under him, pushed his hand away, and grabbed hold just as he started jizzing all over the bedspread. I could tell he was in ecstasy, and I was doing it to him. I loved that.

If I had my way I would have liked to turn him over and watch him shoot off while I was jerking him, but it was not to be.

I asked him if he still wanted to get me off.

He blew me again, and I mentioned that I had already cum that day.

He soon tired and asked me if it was okay to "just call it a night."

Sure kid, it was fun just the same. I cleaned up, dressed and gave him the extra condoms I brought, as well as the semi-cold beer from my pocket.

As I think about it now, I get the feeling that probably it wasn't his first time. His butt sure accepted my cock a lot better than Elton's. But, whatever. I got to fulfill a fantasy that night, a fantasy that I never really knew I had.

Craigslist Experience #7 & #8

Things started getting routine with Craigslist guy #7. 

An out of town visitor, looking to mess around in his hotel room. I was attracted to the guy because he was about my age and height, but when I arrived I realized he had about 40 more lbs than me. He was the same shape as Petter Lorre, and had a similar look to his face, except typical male pattern baldness, not that there's anything wrong with that. He had about the same size dick as me, maybe a bit bigger.

We blew each other. He asked if I'd ever done anal. 

 No.  Not on the receiving end, anyway.  

While he was blowing me, he asked me to try something, and as I was on my back, he pushed my legs back and he rubbed his hard-on in my ass-crack.

Not interested.  Don't go there.

I used a towel to wipe the head of his dick off. We both were taking forever to cum. I kind of just wanted to get it over. In the end, I sucked his dick, and jacked off, I wanted him to cum just before me, or at the same time, but it wasn't working, so I told him I was getting close, and he took matters into his own hands, so to speak. I blew my load on a towel on the bed, he blew on his tummy, and a little on my face. We cleaned up and I left.

Not hot.

Guy #8, The Lurch.

I saw posted on CL. 

"BLO-N-GO. Sucking cock all day."

I responded. He was a decade younger than me, but I guess that was okay. I didn't ask for his stats, or maybe I didn't care. He had an unnumbered apartment above the apartment complex office. I get the idea the limited decorating in this apartment, was a perk for a complex employee, or maybe the manager. I'm not sure, but there wasn't much furniture.  There was a lazy boy with a towel on the seat (gotta protect that HERCULON™ !) and a TV on a stand. Not much else.

Lurch was a big tall hairy guy. Well over 6" and well over 200lbs. Wearing a wife beater, and fur coming out all over. I asked him to take his pants off if he liked. He was sporting a semi. His dick was bigger than mine, but on his big frame and doughy middle, it was about the same proportions as mine. I didn't have any interest in sucking it, but gave it a courtesy tug or two. "Got any porn?" I asked.

Lurch disappeared down the hallway and returned with a DVD. "The only thing I have is a fetish video" he said. I watched as he sucked me off. I was sorry I asked, not soon after it started it featured a guy in a sling, and another big muscled guy with his arm in sling-man's butt-hole up to his elbow!   I closed my eyes and tried to think pleasant thoughts.

I told Lurch that I was getting close. No pulling off. Good. Squirt, squirt, squirt, and it was over. Lurch swallowed, his full mast hard-on sticking out of his fur-laden belly a bit further now.

I thanked him, dressed and bailed. 

BLO-N-GO, mission accomplished.

Craigslist Experience #6

I was visiting family for 3 1/2 weeks in Southern California. Because I didn't really have the privacy I normally have at home, I didn't go on line and look at Craigslist posts, nor did I jack off.

Much.

As I was preparing for my drive home I got the idea that maybe I would like to stop for a blow job along the way.

I quickly looked in the Las Vegas CL M4M section and searched the word "Primm." Between Vegas and the California border, I though maybe it would be a good spot for some "parking lot head" I found 3 posts, but 2 of them were a few days old. I responded to all of them.

Nothing.

As the time for my departure neared, I started to become hornier and more desperate.Finally, I did something I've never done before.

I posted an ad on Craigslist, looking for sex.

A BJ in Primm, to be exact. And since I was using my laptop computer, I didn't have any naked or dick pictures of my self, so I added a face picture, and included my cell phone number.

So, on the drive, I actually got a few phone calls. One call I missed because I was on the other line. One guy couldn't do it because of the timing of my arrival, but another guy said he wanted to give it a go, and the timing would be all right.

He wasn't in Primm, but nearer Vegas. We spoke a couple times on the way, and decided to meet at in the Parking lot of the Bass Pro Shop, just off the Blue Diamond exit. I didn't realize it but it is more than just a sporting goods store, they actually have a casino and hotel on the property as well.

So I get to the parking lot and call "The Dude". " You're there already", he said, "give me 10 or 15 minutes." So, I went in to Bass Pro, and used the mens room. Had to pee.

I went back to the car and tried to get a wi-fi signal on my laptop, just to try and check my e-mail, but before the computer even got booted up and the web browser open, the phone rang. It wasThe Dude.

"Are you sitting in the green Jetta," he asked.

"I'm in the white truck in front of you. Let's go to a more secluded part of the parking lot." "I'll follow you," I responded.

I followed him just a little way, to a different nearby parking lot that was only about a third full, and pretty deserted at one end. I parked, and to my surprise, he got out of his pickup truck and got in the passenger seat of the packed Jetta. I had a lot of luggage and stuff in the back seat. He told me the pick up had an arm rest in the middle.

Dude looked to be in his late 30's. Later I was able to find out he was 48. He was just a little stocky, but no fat. He was a working man, and you could tell he'd been working outside, sweating and hadn't had time to shower. It wasn't bad though, I've smelled like that a million times.

"Dude" kind of looked like this guy.

He was probably 5'8" or 9" 180 lbs, black shirt and blue jeans. Reddish brown hair and a mustache. I told him I though that "what ever two consenting adults did with each other was nobody else's business." I wanted to make sure he wasn't a cop. He agreed, but looked kind of puzzled. He added there was nothing illegal about what we were about to do, no money was involved, and I told him the cops in SLC were known to bust guys doing it in their car.

"This is Vegas, not Salt Lake" was his reply.

I asked if he was hard. I could make out his package in his jeans. "Not yet."

"Can I see your dick?" I asked. "Sure!"

I unbuttoned his Levis. He was going commando. I started playing with his semi hard dick which was bigger than mine, but not huge. Actually, it was perfectly shaped, and he had just the right amount of reddish brown pubes, just like I used to have, before they got sprinkled with gray.

He reached over and fumbled with my pants. I helped him out by pushing my seat back, lifting my ass and pulling pants and boxers below my knees. He started rubbing my soft dick, trying to coax a hard-on. It was working, and I was "rising to the occasion."

When it was about 3/4 hard, I said, "are you ready to do your thing? I guess he was, because he just put his head in my lap and started giving me a very nice blow job. Warm and velvety, and no teeth. This was feeling pretty good.

I put one hand on his head for encouragement, and kind of started rubbing his muscled shoulder with the other hand. We had talked earlier about me keeping a lookout for anyone approaching, but honestly, I was getting caught up in the moment. This guy was doing pretty good. Slowly bobbing up and down, just the right amount of suction and tongue.

It didn't take me the usual 10 minutes to build to a crescendo. In about 5 minutes I was climbing orgasm peak and approaching the summit. I forgot all about looking around for civilians or parking lot patrols. About this point I realized we didn't make any deals about whether this guy would allow me to cum in his mouth or not. He said he's given blow jobs a few times.

It really didn't matter now, as it wouldn't have done any good to pull him off and open up negotiations. I was just about to squirt, and told him so.

If he pulled off, I'd have to figure something else out fast. Turns out, he didn't pull off.

I said, "Oh fuck dude, I'm gonna cum.....ahhhh I'm .........." and that's all I could muster. I started shooting off in his mouth, and he didn't fucking flinch. just kept up the same pace. So much the same pace, that when I was spasming in orgasmic bliss, I had to clamp down on his head because my penis was so sensitive, I couldn't take the movement. He got the message, and calmed down, a with my encouragement, he disengaged.

He looked me in the eyes with a strange look. I think he was searching for a thank you, and I think he got it with the peaceful look of afterglow I must have had on my face.

I knew he just swallowed my spunk (or else he still had it in his mouth, perhaps that was the strange look on his face), and I thanked him and told him how great it was, while I fished around in the back seat for the bag of candy mints I keep near by. I offered him one and he seemed grateful.

We exchanged pleasantries, and thanked each other, and wished each other luck. I was on my way home very much de-stressed and relaxed.

Later, I texted him and gave him my e-mail. We've exchanged a few e-mails, and promised that the next time I get to (or through) Vegas, or he gets to SLC, we'll look each other up. I think I have a favor to return.

**Update. **

It's three months later and guess who is in town for a couple of days for work? If you didn't guess "the dude" then what are you doing reading this anyway?

Yes, the dude e-mailed and said he was coming to town. 2 days only. I kept asking for details of when he would get here, and could we hook up.Yes, he wanted to hook up.Yes, he wanted to suck me off again. Sure, he liked blow jobs, and wanted me to do him too. But he never said WHEN he would get here, only he would try to get here a little bit ahead of his co workers so he wouldn't be worried about them seeing someone go into his room.

So, I was thinking, maybe he'll come around noon. That would be good. I got so horny all day thinking about it. Thank heavens a work call came in around 1PM and took my mind off of it, because I was so horny thinking about it, and looking at porn on the computer didn't help, that I was seriously losing it.

Around 5:30 I thought he must have forgotten to take my phone number, and as searching to see if I had his number saved in my phone. I was out driving around, working at the time, when suddenly the phone rang.

He said he was staying at the Marriott, so naturally I assumed downtown. Wrong. He was at the Residence Inn, Marriott, in the suburbs !!! I couldn't believe my luck. I was headed that direction for an appointment! .

I decided to take the work appointment, get blown by the dude, then head to another appointment. Fucking perfect!

I called the dude back, and he gave me the room number. I got there, and found it no problem. When I got there I shook Dude's hand and thanked him. I told him I was kind of excited, and that I'd been thinking about it all day. I think he was too. He said, "I called you as soon as I got here."

I didn't wait around, but went straight to the bed and dropped trou. I went to take off his shirt, and he didn't seem to cooperate. I dont' think he knew what I was doing. I said, "Is this okay? Do you still want to do this?"

"Oh yah" he said and his eyes kind of lit up. He started taking off his pants. Commando again. This time I saw his whole package free of the jeans. Nice. Long soft dick. Bigger than mine by a long ways, when they're both soft. Mine is pretty stubby when it's soft, then lengthens out when it gets hard. Dude stayed roughly the same length, but got harder. Even hard, his was at least an inch bigger than mine. AT LEAST.

So we get undressed. Dude finally takes his own shirt off and we get on the bed. I feel that I owe him, so I go down on him. It's nice, and I'm kind of enjoying it. I don't know if he shaves his nutsack, but it's smooth. He's pretty smooth too, all over. Not much body hair.

After only a few minutes, he mentions he wants a turn too. I assure him that is in my plans.

I let him have a go on my dick for awhile. He's pretty good. Just the way I like it. He seems to enjoy it, but he's just sucking. He doesn't play with my balls, he doesn't try to do anything with his free hand. No rubbing or anything, but I don't care, because it's good.

"Do you want to try 69?" I suggest? He says "Okay."

I say, "It's not my best, way of getting head", and he says we can try it because he's never done it before.

So, much to my surprise, he's fucking awesome at blowing my dick from that angle. Usually, I feel teeth when I have tried sixty nine. But not this time.

So, we do this for a while. Because I'm digging it. A LONG while. He pulls off for a minute, and I tell him that he had me really close.

"Don't hold back" he replied.

"You want me to cum?" I asked. "Yah" he said.

So, the next 10 minutes were slow, deliberate, tantalizing, almost excruciating pleasure. I was sucking this dudes awesome dick and getting mine sucked at the same time. I was relishing in the pleasure and really enjoying being on the giving AND receiving end. The climax was soooo slow and soooo long and I hovered on the precipice of orgasm ledge for an eternity, all the while sucking an licking his rubbery cock head. I moaned a little, then put his dick in my mouth. Uuuuuungggg! I managed to say, then started sucking again. Finally I felt I had to alert him that I was about to unleash, but it was too late..... "Oh, oh fuck, oh god", I muttered as as I squirted in his mouth. This went on for about a minute, and he backed off just enough with his sucking that I could keep my dick in his mouth.

Fuck. That was fun.

I had failed at paying him back.

Usually I'm not even in the slightest mood to continue after I cum, but for some reason I mustered the courage. I still had the guys hard dick in my hand and only inches from my mouth.

I said, "let me calm down, and I'll see if I can't return the favor". He gave me the confused look again. "Were you even close?" I asked.

"Yah, I was pretty close" he said. I started stroking his hard dick. It looked like it was getting thicker. Dude closed his eyes. Oddly enough, I felt like sticking it back in my mouth. I picked up where I left off.

Dude quickly started moaning and breathing letting me know he was indeed close. His dick was stuffed into the back of my mouth when he came, but I knew he was spurting. I kept his dick back there, and tried to do to him what he had done to me, backing off the movement and giving him just a little. Finally, he touched my head, and pulled out. As he did, cum slid across my tongue.

Nope. I still didn't like the taste. I quickly found the nearby hotel hand towel I had the foresight to grab and spit, and wiped off my coated tongue.

Why does it look so hot in porn to have a guy spooge in your mouth, but when it really happens, it's not that hot? Maybe if it tasted like beer I'd be more into it.

Actually if it tasted like beer, I'd be one cock sucking, cum drinking muther fucker!

"You repaid the favor" Dude said. He looked relieved.

Afterwards, we chatted for awhile. Turns out he is married, and hasn't done that with anyone since I was driving through Vegas last time.

I wished the dude live here. He seems like he'd be a good regular bj, and I wouldn't have to search the Craigslist so much!

Craigslist Experience #5

I saw this post: 

>Need to be Fed - 45 (Downtown)
Reply to:pers-jpynz-XXXXXXXX@craigslist.org

GL Masc MWM, 45yo, six foot, 190, clean, DDF and neg.
Hungry sub cocksucker with deep wet throat looking to
swallow tonite. Visiting from out of town and can host at my
hotel. Enjoy aggressive feeders and the feel of a cock as it
pulses a load down my throat. If interested send stats and
pic.

So, I responded back, but didn't include a picture or anything. I Just mentioned that I was his age, I included my stats, and mentioned that I wanted a BJ.

Nothing. I got nothing back. "Fucker," I thought.

So, I responded back again, this time with a picture of my hard dick, and included a two word demand: "BLOW ME."

Wouldn't you know it. He hit me back.

We bounced some e-mails back and forth. It was only about 4 in the afternoon, and I was horny then, but he said he had a business diner to go to, and would be able to do it in the evening. I told him he should do it now, and go to the diner with my jizz on his breath. He wouldn't budge.

So, I waited around, and purposely didn't drink beer, as is my nightly custom. Finally, about 9:PM it was getting late, and I thought he was probably going to flake out, so I cracked a beer and started watching the news. Fuck him.

Wouldn't you know it, as soon as I took my last swallow, there was an e-mail from him. He was back, the diner ran late, and he wanted me to come over. Well, beer is usually a boner killer, and I don't like to drink and drive, but it was only one beer. 

Why not?

He gave me the name of a nice downtown hotel and his room number. I was already showered and clean, so I headed over.

I was kind of nervous in the lobby and elevator of the hotel. God, it feels like everybody is looking at me as if they know my dirty little secret. My heart pounding I approach his room, but there are some others in the hall, so I pass up his door and keep walking pretending to look for another room. When I get to the end of the hall, I turn around and come back. The hallway is empty now.

I knock on the door, and hear some signs of activity within. The door opens and there stands Jack. V-neck white t-shirt and cargo shorts. We make introductions and shake hands. I see he has the chair by the window prepared with a towel on it, so I head that way. We face each other and I grabbed his crotch. He's starting to get hard. Either that or he's got a big fat dick stuffed into some tight underwear. We rub each others crotches for a minute, and I help him take off his shirt. Hes just a bit hairier than men, but has a nice chest. No flab. I take my shirt off, and he starts undoing his pants.

"Wait" I say, as firmly as I can. "I'll tell you when". He averts his eyes and looks down, his arms hang limply at his sides and then he quietly says "Yes Sir, Sorry Sir".

Okay, the stage is set. I've never done this before, but I'll give it a go. I start to rub his arms and chest and tell him he looks good. Since his pants are unbuttoned, I can see he's going commando, and his semi hard dick is just under the surface.

I sit in the chair, and tell him to get me hard. He kneels before me, and starts to massage my dick through my pants. Then, he starts to try and lick and bite me though the fabric.

"What were you thinking about at diner?" I ask him. "Your cock, sir.....I want to suck your cock.."

"Do you think I'm hard enough?" I asked. "Not yet Sir." He responds.

Sorry dude, I AM hard enough. I just don't have a big dick. I tell him to stop getting my pants all spitty, and I stand up. He kneels upright, again arms hanging limply at his sides awaiting instructions. Okay, I'm game.

I stand. "Take off my pants" I firmly say. He does. "Now my shorts" and he removes my boxers.

"You want to suck my cock?" "Please Sir, I need to suck your cock." he says in almost a whimper.

 "We'll see," I respond.

I tell him to stand up and I take down his cargo shorts. He's got a nice looking dick. Almost perfect, and pretty big. I stroke it a bit and it gets fully hard. Mr. Sub guy is just standing there. "Please let me suck your cock" he again almost wimpers.

I seriously can't believe this handsome dude is begging to suck my average little dick, but he, this is starting to become really fun.

"Maybe I'm going to suck your cock first," I tell him. He's disappointed and doesn't say anything. With that, I take his dick in my mouth and give it a 30 second suck job while I play with his generous balls.

Okay, now I'm really horny, and hard, and want my blow job.

"All right, I guess you can suck my dick now." I tell him, trying to act as if I don't really want it. He drops to his knees faster than you can say Jack Robinson, and starts sucking me off. It's pretty good. I feel like he's trying to deep throat me, so I grab his hair and pull his head down onto my dick. He kind of gags and coughs but keeps on sucking. This goes on for a few minutes, and I feel like I wouldn't mind feeling his dick again.

Taking a cue from some porn I've seen, I ask him to spit into my hand for lube. Well, I don't know where it came from but he deposited about a half a cup of foamy slimy spit into my palm, and there was so much some of it even dripped onto the floor. The rest I smeared up and down his hard cock, as I cradled his head in my crotch. I had to stop the activities to look for the small hand towel I saw on the bed, to wipe up all the spit.

After a little clean up, I tell him I want to move it to the bed. I put the hotel pillows up against the head board and prop myself up. He starts sucking me off again. Every once in a while I force his head way down on my dick, and he doesn't fight it, so I guess he likes it.

I very slowly start to build to a climax.

"You're not going to pull off of my dick when I cum, are you?" I ask. "No sir." he says as he comes up for air just enough to answer my question.

Ever so slowly I start to cum. I don't know why the best feeling in the world, a blow job make me climax so slowly. The better the blow job the longer and slower is my orgasm. That dude had me on the edge for about 4 minutes, then finally I started cumming, and my orgasm-spasm lasted another full minute with me breathing hard and moaning and gripping sub-guy's head.

When it was over, I pulled him off of my cock, and for some strange reason I had the urge to do something else I'd seen in gay porn; kiss him on the mouth and taste my own cum. I asked him if I could, and he said yes, but he had already swallowed it all, and I tasted nothing.

I told him to get a wet washcloth and clean me up. Naked, he went to the bathroom, and returned and did as he was told.

He started to put his pants back on. I told him to stop. I was trying to think of a way to try and humiliate him one more time while he was still naked.

I dressed, and told him I wanted him to see me to the door, and open the door, so if anyone was in the hall way they would see him naked.  Then I told him I wanted him to kiss the back of my neck and push me out into the hall way.

He did exactly as he was told, and I was on my way home.

When I got there, I e-mailed him back:

That was nice. I tried to be as dom as I could. I've never done that before.

Can I ask some advice? Should I have gone further? A little spank? Abusive verbiage? Push you around a little?

Any pointers would be appreciated.

Jack.

He responded:

First thanks for feeding me.

Lots of abusive verbiage is always hot. Forcing my head down on your cock repeatedly. Light CBT.

I enjoyed it tho.

Recently, he e-mailed me saying he was coming back to town soon, and could he service me again. what do you think? Should I?

Update. He let me know he was in town again, and I told him I wanted to use him again, but he never contacted me back. The tease.  

Craigslist Experience #4

My first anal experience. 

Here's the Craigslist post that caught my eye.

>want my ass taken - 37 (salt lake)
> Reply to: pers-ftx9u-1XXXXX14@craigslist.org
>
>
> Been a long time since I had my ass played with. Got a gf but she's not into it and a real cock feels so much better anyways.
>
> Don't want any drawn out foreplay. We go to the bedroom, take each others clothes off, fondle, touch, maybe you turn me around
> so you can bend me over a little to have better access to my ass, get on the bed, some oral to get us hot, then you have your way with me.
> Doggy, face to face, on our sides, standing, anyway you want. Not into obese but a little hard belly to rub against me is okay as long as
> the rest of you is masc and in shape.
>
> Me: slim/athletic build, d/d free, play safe, short hair, professional looking. Need a pic eventually. Won't meet without one. <<< >

So, I respond:


> From: jack@yahoo.com
> Subject: want my ass taken - 37
>
> Did you get any takers?
>
> I'm a newbie to all of this, but lately exploring a lot. I've had 3 pretty great Craigslist BJs. Never done anything anal. I know I could never bottom, but I've been curious about topping.
>
> I've given a couple of BJs. I could use more experience.
>
> I don't have a big dick. If that's a problem, I understand.
>
> So if you'll be patient with me, and tell me what to do, I'll try stickin it to ya.
>
> 46 147lbs 5'6" Average nice guy.
>
> Jack.

So, we e-mail back and forth a couple times, and exchange pictures and all. I'm surprised he's interested because he's 9 years my junior.

He finally gives me his cell phone number, and I give him my address, and we set a time. I just have enough time to run over to the grocery store and buy some condoms and KY Jelly. Since I had never done this before, I asked him in one of our e-mails if that would be okay for Lube. It was. I purchased them at the pharmacy, and I was surprisingly calm. I thought maybe I'd have trouble with it, but I was as cool as a cucumber, as if I bought condoms and lube all of the time.....that's right, I'm a stud now.

I run home and get everything ready. Porn on the laptop, condoms and lube on the dresser. A towel standing by, just in case. I've read a couple gay sex forums, and they said it would be a good idea to have a towel standing by.  (It came in handy.)

I'm pretty nervous when he pulls up in the driveway in a nice silver car. Maybe a newer Caddy, or Acura or something. He's dressed like an draftsmen or architect or something, and looks better in his clothes than in the nude picture of himself. Actually, he looks pretty good.

So, he rings the bell, I answer, "Elton?" I ask. "Yup." he says. I'm not sure what to do next, so I say, "Well, let's go upstairs". He follows. I secretly hope he's checking out my ass on the way up.

When I get to the bedroom, he grabs for my junk, through my pants. I reciprocate. He pulls me in an kisses me right on the mouth. I'm totally surprised., but I try to get into the moment, and our tongues meet. I pulled away and said "I've never kissed a dude before." He apparently doesn't care cause, he pulls me in for another, as we feel each other up. It was kind of like making out with a chick, but I didn't have to buy dinner or anything.

So, I'm kind of getting into it, and start nuzzling his neck. I really want to suck on it, or maybe bite it. He pulls me off, "No marks...." he instructs. Okay, I'll take I'll take it down a notch.

We pull off our clothes. He's really smooth, and his dick seems to be about the same girth as mine, but certainly longer. Nice looking too. So, I start sucking it. A minute later we move to the bed. I'm not sure who's idea it is, but we 69 for a bit. It's nice.

After a while, I ask if it's time to try that other thing.

Sure.

I grab the condoms and the KY. I hand HIM the condom package. He takes out the condom and unrolls it on my dick. I wish my dick was longer, like his.

I squirt some KY on my dick, and rub it around. Elton grabs behind his knees and offers up his ass. I put more KY on my hand and rub it around his nearly hairless butt hole. It looks small. It looks really small, and my dick looks huge when I press it against his hole. I start to push but nothing happens. Reminds me of when my first girlfriend and I lost our virginity together. (difficult)

So, I did what any guy would do, I tried gently rocking it in, and sliding it up and down, but it wasn't working. I tried again to force it in his butt, and finally I said "there's no way dude!" Instead of agreeing with me, he said, "keep trying, it will go in."

Well, now the race was on. My penis hadn't had any stimulation in a few minutes, and I was starting to lose my erection. This breaking down the fortress wall stuff wasn't really turning me on. Finally something happened, and my dick entered his ass. God, it was tight, and he winced.

 "Wait......" he said.

 But waiting wasn't helping my hard on. I needed to do a little in-out, in-out, and quick, if I wanted to save my boner. I started to move back and forth slowly. It started working for a minute, but I got greedy, and pulled out too far, and my dick came out. When I went to put it back in, I noticed that things weren't pristine clean. I guess I knew sex could be messy, but I guess you don't get the whole picture until you play the game for real. And there was a little bit of smell.

Well, so I'm trying to stuff my sausage back in, and there are a couple of turn-offs happening. I think maybe this will go better with the rear entry method. I suggest it and he stands on the floor, and leans over the bed. He's just barely learning over, bracing himself with his arms. I don't know why, but I think maybe it will be easier, if he bends all the way over. Instead of suggesting this, I just push him down, like I'm some kind of porn star or something.

He gets the idea, and I go about unsuccessfully trying to gain access to the back door again. Finally, Elton says "are you hard enough?"

How embarrassing.

"Apparently not," I responded.

I wanted him to suck me some more to get me hard. That wasn't going to happen with that dirty condom on. I got it off and put it in the trash.

I can't exactly remember now if he sucked me off again or not, but we did try it again with a fresh condom. I found the same impenetrable fortress gates again, and soon my dick started to deflate.

I said "wait a minute, let me get something from the drawer." I was going to get the mail order dildo, that was way too big for me, and I was going to try to loosen up Elton's asshole. "Naw, I've got to get going. Let's just get off" he said as he stopped me.

I pulled off the second condom, and Elton took over. He was making out with me and docking our cocks. I think that's the right term. Anyway he was jacking us both off in one hand. And he was making out with me a little. It wasn't doing much for me, but it wasn't bad. Pretty soon, he says he going to cum. I hear his breathing increase, and then he makes the classic "O" face. He squirts on the towel, and a little on me. It was pretty hot I guess. It would have been hotter if I was anywhere near climaxing as well.

Oh well. He asks for the bathroom and takes the towel with him. "Is it okay to get this wet?" He yells. Of course it is. I guess he's cleaning up. He returns to the bedroom. I've already got my boxers on and he puts his shorts on as well. He can't find his pants for some reason. Finally we find them under the bed. And then he left. "Sorry we couldn't get you off" he offered as he was leaving.

Oh well, it was a first.

 It was fun.

 I'll have a better idea of what to do next time.

Craigslist Experience #3

Here is the post I responded to: 

I need new pics - 48 (Salt Lake City)
Reply to: pers-ybzsh-XXXXXXXXX@craigslist.org


I am not sure where else to ask this favor but here.
My phone takes OK pictures but I just can’t seem to get the right angles to show what I got. I would appreciate a little help from someone who is ok with taking nude pics.
You can have some of what I got if you want or I can return the favor by taking pics of you if you like.
Let me know please…thanks

My Response:

Ha ha. Great post.
I'd be happy to help out. I'm a bit shy, but hooked up on Craigslist twice, for BJs. It was fun, so I'm trying to be bit more adventurous.
I recently took some "photos" of me, using the timer function on my camera, so I know what you're getting at.
I'm not interested in keeping any, if we do this, so you can either buy a memory card for the camera, then just keep it, or we can download the pics to your computer, and then erase them from the camera.
I'm just interested in helping someone like me out.
I'm 46, 5'6", 150 lbs, very average looking, curious but inexperienced.
Anyway, let me know either way. I would be especially interested in hearing how it went if you got someone else to do it.
Ciao!
Jack.


So, we exchanged a few e-mails. He didn't have a place to take the pictures and I was nervous about having someone over to my house. I thought long and hard about some place else to take these pictures, somewhere like down by the river in the trees or something. I couldn't come up with any place that was comfortable. He gave me his phone number, and I used *67 to block my caller ID, and called him. I got his voice mail. He sounded normal. I left a message telling him that I would call back around 5:30.

I didn't know what this guy's story was, only that he felt comfortable soliciting a photographer from the CL M4M section. I didn't know if he was gay, straight or what. Taking a cue from MR. H. I had both types of porn ready for my VCR. That's right, a VCR. The last time I actually purchased porn, was in the 80's or 90's and VHS was the medium of choice.

So after another e-mail or two, and a phone call or two, Jess comes to my house. He's dressed in business casual, so I know he's just come from the office, like he told me on the phone. He's older than me, shaved head, a bit bigger than me, by a few inches and 50 lbs. Just an average looking guy.

I was ready with my camera.

He came in and we shook hands, and I suggested we go to the living room. I started asking him about what kind of photos he wanted. I though I would just shoot a whole bunch, starting with a fully clothed body shot, and just keep shooting while he disrobed. I think he had other plans.

He told me he just wanted some cock shots, taken with his cell phone camera that he could e-mail. Okay. Boring but what ever. I'm just happy to help a guy out.

Then he said, he wanted his dick to be hard for the photo. I offered my porn, and he replied with "Well, can I suck your dick? That would make me hard."

Heck yes, you can suck my dick Mr. Jess. Who am I to refuse an offer of a BJ.

He is sitting on my couch and starts to take off his shirt, and undo his pants. That's when I spy the monster.

"Fuck man, you got a big dick" I said. And he did too. A big fat uncut dick, and big low hanging balls to boot. "I'm sorry, but I don't have a big dick, I hope that's okay with you." I added.

It apparently was no problem for him because I came towards him and motioned for him to undo my pants. He did so, and slid my boxers down and started sucking. He even grabbed my ass and pulled me all the way into his mouth. I moved to sit on the couch. He got on the floor and continued the blow job. He even started licking my balls, and the area underneath. I said "do ya want to get up in there?" "Uh huh" he responded. I pulled my knees up and the goes to town eating out my ass hole and tonguing my pucker, kind of violently too, like a starving lion at a kill. So I've now hooked up 3 times and all three guys want to eat my hairy ass. I find it weird, but hey, it feels pretty good, and who am I to deny someone getting their freak on?

I reached down and started playing with monster. I have never seen an uncut cock before, except in porn and in the locker room. I had never touched one before. It was kind of cool pulling the skin back, but I didn't know if it would go all the way back. I have heard it hurts some guys, so I asked him about it. "It will go all the way back when it's hard. He said.

"What's that?" I asked referring to all of the clear slimy juice inside the foreskin and all over the head. "Precum!" he said. I guess he was excited. Since I don't know anything about uncut cocks, I didn't know how much precum a foreskin could hold, and I though maybe it was smegma, which I've herd about, but never experienced. (thank god)

He was blowing me, and I was playing with his dick, and I took the towel I had handy, and wiped off the copious amounts of pre cum. I wasn't going to miss my opportunity to try blowing an uncut dick, even if it was just to see what it was like.

And here's what it was like. Different. I can't say I really enjoyed it, but I didn't hate it either. I just kept thinking what my dick might be like with foreskin. But that's another full page rant, best saved for another day.

So then I remembered the camera, and actually took a photo of me blowing this gigantic uncut dick. Of course a third of it is stuffed into my mouth, so you can't tell it's uncut.

So, then I suggest he's hard enough for the photos. Like he almost forgot or something. I take a bunch of dick shots. I try to get creative.....push it forward, grab it with your fist, put it in front of the lens to block your face....on and on.

So, tell me Jess, do you still want to continue blowing me? He sure does. I sit in the chair, and he gets on his knees in front of me. Then I tell him I have a fantasy. Would he oblige me. "Of course" he says. "What is it".

"I want your to cum in my hair." I say. I know what you're probably thinking. WTF???!!

I don't know, I watch these porno where the guy shoots his jizz on the other guy, and sometimes it over shoots the mark, and gets in the other guys hair. I find that hot, so I wanted to try it. I know. I'm a freak.

So, Jess agrees, that even if he comes, he'll still be in the mood to blow me. I think that cumming in my hair will be so cool, it won't take much more and I'll shoot my load. Deal done. I blow Jess a bit, and he pulls away, jacks his cock and I bend forward to get the hair gel treatment.

As you might be thinking, it wasn't as big of a turn on as I had hoped it would be.

No matter, Jess settles down and gets back to work on my still hard dick. I gain some momentum and tell him I'm about to cum. To my disappointment, he pulls off, and finished me off by hand.

I'm feeling pretty relaxed after I cum and lean back. I run my hand across my head. That's when I remember I have jizz in my hair. I put on my boxers and go to have a look in the bathroom mirror. There is a lot of jizz in my hair. What was I thinking. I try to towel it out, and wash my hands. When I come out, Jess is mostly dressed.

We say thanks, shake hands, and I tell him I'll e-mail the pics to him. I'll even give give him an extra set, with reduced quality, therefore a smaller file, that's better for sending on line or posting on Craigs list.

He leaves.

So, after I send Jess the photos, he thanks me of course, but says he forgot to get some body shots. Could we schedule another photo shoot.

Sure Jess. He also makes some mention of wanting to spend some time with my sweet ass. Later I asked him to clarify, because my ass isn't really up for grabs. He just complimented me and said he thought I had a nice body and wanted to fool around some more.

So, we made an appointment for the following week. He came round, and we started fondling each other, and did a 69, and then got each other off. This time I jacked off while sucking him, and watching twink porn.

Neither of us mentioned the extra pictures, which was the whole purpose of him returning. I thought that might not really be what he was after.

I hooked up with Jess one more time. This time, less talking. No pretense of photo-taking.

I think this is the end of the Jess story. Been there, done that. Time to move on and dial in my preferences.

Craigslist Experience #2

Armed with my new found courage gained by actually going through with the John Smith BJ, I found a similar post: 

BJ's - NSA - No Recip (DT - SLC)
Reply to: pers-e9g682@craigslist.org

I will take as much time as you need and work you up for a second time if you like. If you like I can also work those nipples, balls and if very clean rim you. Comfortable place to host, porn available if you like (str8, bi, gay). Love to suck and swallow however somewhat discerning and fussy about who I suck off. I want to know who I'm dealing with so your replay needs to include age, wt, ht and if possible a pic. You must be clean, drug free, disease free and HIV- like me. If good for both of us it could be a regular thing.


We e-mailed back and forth a bit, and he sent me a photo. I can't remember if I sent him one. I probably did. We set up a time for later that afternoon. He gave me directions and even a picture of his house. I drove by it, and found a place to park a block away. I didn't want him to see my car and license plate, just in case he was some kind of weirdo. I nervously walked to the door and rang the bell.


This tall guy answered. He was better looking than his photo, still I could tell he was in his 50's. Whatever, a BJ is what I was here for.


He turned out the be the sweetest, nicest guy ever. He seemed to really enjoy pleasuring me. I could see he had done this before, there were a couple of men's magazines on the coffee table, along with some folded hand towels and a box of wet wipes.  Always be prepared?


He asked me if I wanted some porn playing on the TV. Yes please. What type? I opted for gay porn. He obliged. I asked if I should get undressed, or whether he wanted to undress me. What ever I was comfortable with, he said. I took off my shoes and pants and sat on the couch in my boxers and button up shirt. He rubbed my crotch and pulled down the elastic. He fondled my hardening dick and started to kiss and nibble around the area.


I responded by lifting my ass and pushed my boxers down to the floor. And then Mr. H. went to work. This guy was good. He wasn't kidding when he said it would be the best blow job of my life. I unbuttoned my shirt and he rubbed my hairy chest. It took several minutes, but I was really getting into it, him sucking, softly, then harder then softly again, me watching the porn on the TV, and then the crescendo. I managed to gurgle, "I'm gonna cum."


I'm not sure if I expected him to pull off or what, but I don't' think he had any intention of it. He expertly picked up the pace and had me shooting off into his mouth immediately. Then just at the point where things get too sensitive, he stopped and just held me in his mouth. It felt deliriously delicious! Finally, he pulled off. No trace of cum anywhere, and my softening dick was clean as a whistle.


He reached for one of the folded towels and proceed to dry every thing off. I followed by using a wet wipe for good measure.


I caught my breath, and started to get dressed. We thanked each other and he said that it was great for him, he really liked my body (a very nice compliment, as honestlyI really am just a normal guy) and he would welcome me back anytime.


I returned less than a week later. I've been back there 4 more times so far. Mr. H. is always very nice. Always clean. Unwaveringly polite, and never has a hint of bad breath.


**Update. After visiting Mr H. about 5 times, I wrote the above story about my 2nd Craigslist encounter. I intended on sending the story to another e-mail buddy that had never done anything like this, and wondered how my experience was going.
I was so proud of writing this literary masterpiece that I decided to share it with Mr. H as well. Long story short, Mr. H was not very happy AT ALL. He said I betrayed his trust. I haven't gone back since.

Lesson learned, by both of us.

Craigslist Experience #1

Craigslist Post 

Feb 3

Quick NSA Blow & Go (All Day) - 33(West Jordan) 
Me: Average height and weight 
Door is unlocked. Porns playing on the tv. I'll be sitting on the couch. Just walk in, move over to the couch, whip out your cock, and get sucked and swallowed, and take off, no muss, no fuss, no conversation.
Include stats with reply.
I have pics for trade. 

From Jack:

Hi there. I've seen this post before (or one like it) and wondered if I could go through with it. I would
really like to give it a try.

I'm very average myself,and don't have a big cock or balls. Does that matter to you?

I have the day off and need to shower, but after that I have no plans.

How many guys have you done this to?

Sorry, but I'm a bit nervous.

Oh, yah. I'm 5'6", 150 lbs. Not fat, not skinny, not tall, a little hairy, and typical average white middle class guy.

Jack.
From John Smith: Pic attached. Pic to trade?

From Jack: You're a nice looking fellow. I'll attach one of me from last summer. Like I said, I'm kind of a small guy.
From John Smith: you're a handsome guy. Still interested incoming over. I'd love to suck and swallow your load.

From Jack: Of course I'm interested, but how does this all work?
From John Smith: you ever let a guy suck your cock? 

From Jack: Me and a fishing buddy did it a few times. I liked it a lot!
From John Smith: come on over. 

From Jack: Okay, come over to where?
From John Smith: How long to get to the XXXX south XXth west area?

From Jack: I'm downtown, so I guess about 30 min, maybe more with traffic.
From John Smith: you live out in the burbs or in downtown?

From Jack: I'm home. I kind of live in the "Hood" just west of downtown.
From John Smith: LOL, it's all good dude. I'm just thinking about traffic. I'd love to suck you off dude, but, I don't if I'm worth a 30+ minute drive and the fight against traffic, LOL.

From Jack: Worth it? Are you kidding? Of course it's worth it. Are you up for it is the question.
From John Smith: You're a good looking guy. I'd love to suck your cock. I'd just think 35 to 40 minutes of driving each way for about 15 minutes of fun, LOL.

From Jack: I don't know just exactly how long I might last. Maybe not 15 minutes! Who knows, maybe longer. Maybe we could schedule something for tomorrow morning if you prefer. What ever. I just want to give this a try.
From John Smith: tomorrow morning would work better. What time would be good for you. I'd be free anytime after 9:00.

From Jack: Then as close to 9 as you're comfortable with. I like to drink my coffee in the morning and read my e-mail and such so that would work good for me.
From John Smith: I'll drop you a line as soon as I'm available then.

From Jack: Okay, I hope to talk to you in the morning, and I'm going to resist the temptation to whack off until then.
From John Smith: HOT. I cannot wait to taste your load.

From Jack: Well, don't expect too much, like I said I'm just an average dude and don't have a big dick or anything. But thanks just the same for your nice compliments. Ciao!
From John Smith: I've never sucked a cock I didn't enjoy. 


THE NEXT DAY, FEB 04.


From Jack: Okay, it's Tomorrow already. Are you ready?
From John Smith: my place is free now. 

From Jack: Okay, I'll get showered and come over. Just where?
From John Smith: hit me up as soon as you're ready to leave, and I'll give you the address. 

From Jack: Okay, I'll get cleaned up and hit you back in 10-15 minutes.

From Jack: okay, all ready. What's next? Can I request a porn?
From John Smith: ((ADDRESS REMOVED)), corner house, white Cadillac DTS in driveway. What vehicle and color you driving? I have gay porn playing, that cool.?

From Jack: Yes, I was going to request young guys and BJs for porn. I'm excited and nervouse, but here I come. I'm in a dark green VW Jetta. See you about 9:45.

Jack.
From John Smith: see you soon. Just walk in. I'll be sitting on the couch. 



So, I drove over. I was so nervous. I couldn't believe I was going through with it.

I pulled in the driveway, and went to the door. It was slightly ajar, so I knew I had
the right house. I opened the door and stepped in and sure enough, there was a guy sitting on the couch, no pants, with a big ol boner, stroking it.

I walked over and said "John Smith?" which is the name he used in his e-mail, and he then nodded.

I told him I was nervous, and he told me to relax, this was going to be fun. So, I took off my coat and hung it on a chair, and asked whether he wanted to undo my pants or should I?

"What ever you want", he replied. So, I slipped off my shoes, and took off my pants. In my boxers, I went and sat next to him, and asked him if I could touch his hard dick. "Sure" he said.

I felt bad, because my hands were cold and I was kind of awkward. He commented that it appeared I hadn't been with many guys.

So, to move the story along, he did give me as blow job.

So, the dude starts blowing me, and then licking my nuts and stuff, and then, he starts licking under my nut sack, down near no-man's land. I think I know what he's going for because I watch a lot of porn. So, I kinda lift my legs back to give him better access to my butt-hole, and he starts tonguing me for all its worth.

This is totally new for me, and I kind of like it. Weird but nasty sexy fun weird.

"Ever had your ass licked before? He asked. "Never" I replied. "A lot of guys wish their wives or girlfriends would do it to them" he said. I can now see why. "You don't mind doing it?" I asked, really wanting to know. His response kind of surprised me, "I fucking love it!"

With that, he instructed me to get on my knees on the couch, and face the back, he pulled me back a little, and got all up in my crack. The couch was up against a window, so I was looking out into the back yard. It's weird, I was just enjoying the view with my butt thrust out, and feeling all of this pleasure in my ass.

He asked if I was enjoying it. Fuck yes!

"Maybe you can show your fishing buddy" he said. "I don't think he'll be into doing that to me." I said.

Although it was new and pleasurable, I knew it wasn't going to bring me to getting off, so after a bit, I asked if he could blow me some more.
He did, and then I asked if I could suck him as well. Of course he said yes. We did 69 for a while, and he said we'd better try something else because he was close to cumming.

I asked him not to cum, because I wanted to watch, and I wasn't even near the brink. (it usually takes me a LONG time to reach climax).

Then, I was sitting on the couch, laying back, and he was on the tile floor on his knees, sucking for all it was worth, trying to get me off. God, I was right on the edge for about 3 full minutes, but just couldn't climax, and finally, he got so tired, he pulled off. I thought he just needed a break.

When I went to stand up, he said "Don't step in it!" and there was a HUGE puddle of jizz on the tile floor. He had brought himself off, while he was blowing me, and I didn't even know! I wish he would have warned me, perhaps the sight of that would have put me over the edge.

He said he had to get going. I'd been there a half hour or 45 minutes.

So, I quickly got dressed and shook his hand and went home and jerked off.

It was disappointing that I didn't get off in his mouth, but the experience gave me the courage to try it again. The next time was much more successful. 

Introduction

I started writing about my anonymous hookups via Craigslist for a few reasons. First of all, I was scared to death about anonymously hooking up with guys I'd never even met, and I was pretty sure I would catch some disease and have to report it to the proper authorities. I began by compiling just a simple list of the first few guys I received blow jobs from.

From there, I started to add details to help me remember the experience. Then I stumbled upon a couple very explicit blogs, and realized with a few colorful adjectives, this simple compilation of boring details could be transformed into some interesting reading.

As my bravery into the anonymous hook up world began to blossom, so did my writing, until I looked forward to the retelling of the tale (tail?) almost as much as the hook up itself!

Now, after several hookups under my belt (so to speak) and regular visits to the County Health Dept. clinic for testing, I feel much more confident that I will not become the next typhoid Mary, of the discreet, closeted and "on-the-downlow" crowd.

What follows are the true accounts of my anonymous Craigslist hook ups, written shortly after they took place. The names have been changed to protect the guilty.