He is now relaxed and lets me push inside, with little or no fingering or loosening up. And I like it too. His ass feels so nice, and it just feels great.
Why is it that my body betrays me and I don't orgasm?
I fuck and fuck and fuck, until my dick goes limp, or, if I've take 25 mg or my little blue friend, I fuck and fuck and fuck until my back muscles are just plain worn out. And still, I do not cum. Usually I don't even get close.
Grrrr. So frustrating. For both of us.
Amigo wants me to cum, so bad, and of course I want to as well.
If I look back through my history, I've had trouble with cumming, even with girls. I lost my virginity when I was 17 with my first ever girlfriend Tina. We used the "pull out" method the first few times, and then a pregnancy scare forced us to use condoms. That totally killed it for me, and I even used male fantasy to help me achieve orgasm.
My last girlfriend, when I was in my late 20s, I could fuck and fuck and fuck too, and not cum. The poor girl. I remember her having to put a cool damp washcloth on her pussy one night, after I just kept pounding away, trying to cum.
So, yah, I know I have a problem, but I don't know how to solve it. I guess I'll just keep trying different things. We're both getting pleasure for sure, but it's kind of like working at a job you love, but never receiving a paycheck.
http://youtu.be/yidiSX2fwgo
Not cumming is a problem!
ReplyDeleteYou should talk to your Doctor about this.
It is extremely important for us men to cum.
Update. We fucked once last night, then again this morning at 5:30 PM. This time at 2:30 in the afternoon, Launch Sequence complete. Amigo is in the shower now, freshening up.
ReplyDeleteYou know, I've had that problem a couple of times. Mostly it's with my partner and I'm pretty sure it's because I'm not in the right headspace. With him, I'm over-sensitive about his comfort and him having a good time. Ironically, he gets harder and more turned on the more I don't worry about those things and just fuck the hell out of him. But it's kinda rare, but I can think of a couple of times where I can keep going and going and not get to that point. And I can also remember a few guys where I feel the urge before I'm even halfway in. I just can't seem to find the pattern that indicates why that's so. Ha! So this comment isn't really helpful, probably but thought I'd say you're not the only one. And I'm sure focusing on it isn't helping matters. Cheers!
ReplyDeleteYou are right BC. Thanks for the kind words of encouragement. I'll keep trying. It's not like its unpleasant or anything.
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