A weird Grindr day

It's been just over a month since I posted.  Perhaps an update is in order.  The Amigo and I are fine.  We have some of the same challenges.  Immigration.  School.  I'm not sure if there is any other resolution than marriage that can solve these issues, but I'm not ready for that just yet.

Also, there has been improvement in the bedroom.  I've managed to acheive orgasam 6 of the last 7 times we've had sex.  I wish I could pinpoint what I'm doing differently, but I can't really put my finger on it.  If I had to guess, I would say, that I just get in there and try to get off.  I try not to pay attention to the Amigo's satisfaction, and just do what feels good for me.  I'm pretty sure he's happier with this situation as well, and when I'm finished using his ass for my pleasure, I make sure he cums too.

I've made several good decisions not to hook up.  I'm trying to break that habit and stay more faithful.  But, I stumble occasionally.  I try to keep it with the regulars, like the 20 year old neighbor kid who hits me up every couple of months, and comes over at dawn for a little fun, or the super hottie that lives a mile away, who I find kneeling in his living room, giant dick sticking strait up from his handsome fit torso.  He loves to suck me off, and it doesn't take long as I look at him fisting his beautiful dripping cut 8 incher, as he works my hard dick with his talented mouth and tongue.

But, I don't usually blog about the repeat offenders (even though I've got a couple hot regulars)

Instead, I'll tell you about my weird "Grindr Day."

It started off innocently enough.  Turning on Grindr in the morning (I had a light work day) and started by chatting it up with a 24 year old hairy guy staying at a nearby hotel.  Although he wanted a BJ, he wasn't available until the evening.  I rarely hook up in the evening,  Just not interested.  Nothing more came of this conversation.

After a noon meeting, I had to take a package to UPS, but that didn't stop me from hitting up another skinny 24 year old, who apparently lives in my "hood."

Much to my surprise, he accepted my invitation to suck him off, and he invited me over.

I was there in less than 5 minutes and found him reclined on the couch, shirtless despite the fact that he told me he was going to crack the door open and start jacking off, I found him with pants on, and I had to work them off, before I started sucking his fat dick.

He had a nice dick, and his pubes were almost all shaved off.  He had tiny balls, like mine that were also shaved.  His dick was soft at first but I got him semi-erect in a short minute.  I then worked off one whole pant leg to allow me better access.  I was enjoying myself, but I'm not sure the kid was.  He didn't say anything, and didn't moan.  He didn't put his hand on my head, so I just tried to enjoy his dick.  After a few minutes, I released his other leg from the pants, and he pulled his legs up, and  gave me full access.  His balls kept pulling up into his abdomen, and his taint was hard, so I thought I was doing a good job and he would be cumming in my mouth soon.

But, I sucked and sucked, and stroked and stroked.  He mentioned "face fucking" in our text messages, and I told him that was fine, as long as the didn't get too aggressive.  15 minutes into the BJ, I was getting tired, and asked him it he wanted to stand and face fuck me.  Sometimes a guy needs to be in control in order to cum, so I figured this would speed things along.  After all, I had an international package to drop off to UPS for work!  I couldn't afford to stay and suck his cock all day!

The kid face fucks me for maybe 3 minutes before giving up, and saying he was exhausted, because he'd been up all night.  I had been doing all the work, and he was exhausted?
It was kind of a weird situation.  He had a security camera at the front door, with a little screen.  I guess a more modern day peep hole.  At one point he used the TV remote and the giant screen TV was broadcasting the signals of "front door" "back door" and several other cameras around the house.  I'm guessing he was a druggie, with a nifty security system,  and I took this as my cue to quit while I was ahead, and bail.

I told him I had to get going for work, and washed the saliva from my hands in the nearby kitchen sink before I fled.

He seemed disappointed but didn't say anything.  I had been sucking his dick for 20 minutes and it only went fully hard a couple times, and then semi-erect for the remainder.

Oh well.  My lips were numb, but it was fun just the same.

Later that day, I had another errand at FedEx, and use the opportunity to turn on grinder once more.

I saw another kid, 18 years old who had a very brash profile and photo. It intrigued me and just for fun I sent him a message. Do you want car head?

I went inside the Federal Express office and conducted my business, when I returned  to the car, I found the 18-year-old had responded to my message. He was down, but he wanted a package of cigarettes.

I was hesitant, but I thought what the hell? I've never done this before. I mean, I've never exchanged money or goods for dick.

So after obtaining his cigarettes,  I went to meet him in the parking lot of the nearby library.



He rode up on his bicycle and he looked nothing like his photo.

In his photo he looked like a clean-cut hard-ass with an attitude. When he rolled up on his bike he looked a little dirty, a little femmy, and his hair was died a strange combination of henna and purple.

He did have a super cute face, but again, he looked a little grungy.

I asked him if he wanted to get in the car and go somewhere more private, and he said he didn't know what to do with his bike. A quick look around and he decided to hide it behind some bushes, and lock it to the chain-link fence. He got in my car, and I started to back up. That's when I noticed he wasn't only dirty looking, but he smelled bad too. Not super bad, but certainly a bath had not been in his plans for a day or two.

He had me drive to a nearby neighborhood that he was familiar with, but by this time I was already second thinking the whole situation.

I had not asked him my usual three questions, about being STD free, HIV-negative, and a non-smoker.

The fact that he wanted me to buy him cigarettes already answered one of the questions!

Somehow, my big head won the debate going on in my mind, and I told him I had gotten cold feet and didn't want to do this anymore.

"Why ?" He asked me, in a disappointed tone.

I told him that he looked very young. And I was very nervous. I said he could have the cigarettes anyway, and it had all been very fun and exciting but I couldn't go through with it.

I took him back to the library and dropped him off where he had his bike stashed. He sat in the car and wanted to talk for a little bit, and I was fine with that, he seemed like a nice guy, but he was a little bit campy, and nothing like the character I had in my mind when I saw his picture.

So, it was a weird day. I got together with two guys, sucked one dick, and didn't get any cum from either of them.