My Husband blocked me on Grindr.

 Hi Friends.  I'm not so sure anyone will read this.  It's been a long time since I posted here (or anywhere for that matter.)

Hooking up waxes and wanes since marriage.  Amigo would prefer monogamy, but that wasn't part of the deal.  Still, I gave it a shot.  A  few times.  I always fall off the wagon.  We've come to an uneasy truce.  Amigo is still my main squeeze, and the sex is always good.  I don't always orgasm, which I don't understand, as the pleasure I experience when we fuck, is really intensely good.  It must be a psychological thing.

But I digress.  We both have accounts on various apps.  I prefer Grindr, he prefers A4A.  Infrequently he'll open up Grindr, and very rarely I'll open up A4A.  

So, occasionally I'll see his profile, on Grindr, and he's in my favorites, so I can see if he's been on the app recently, and I've noticed that he's disappeared from my favorites!  This can only mean  one of two things; either he's blocked me, or he's deleted his profile.   

We both can unlock each others phones.  That's part of the uneasy agreement.  I don't keep secrets, but also, I don't announce my occasional trysts either.  If he wants to know about them, he can open my app and read all he wants.  Or, he can look at my spreadsheet.  My shameful body count spreadsheet.  Likewise I'm able to snoop on his phone too, although I never do.

One of these days, I guess I'll open his phone and see if he deleted Grindr, or if he simply blocked me.  I guess it's not important.  

What is important is cuddling at bedtime, and pleasing each other behind closed doors.

Edit: I snooped on his phone, and looked at his block list.  I wasn't on it!  Strange!

Then, I looked on MY phone, and yes, I had blocked him.  I either forgot, or he blocked himself from my phone.  Either is possible.  Have I mentioned that I'm losing my mind?  Or at least my memory?