Just a little update.

Hello faithful reader, if there are any left.

My life marches on, and I'm enjoying everything so far.

A few weeks ago, there was a change in my household.  Amigo has moved in.  Officially.

He was here just about every night anyway, so, what the hell.  I was a bit reluctant, but I did/do see the practicality of it.  The only downside is that if we ever want to split up, he has no apartment to go back to.  I guess I'll burn that bridge when I cross it.

The great sex, without me achieving orgasm still is plaguing me.

Over the President's Day weekend, Amigo had Sat, Sun, Mon, & Tues off from school/work.  That means we had great sex every morning for four days.  I didn't cum once, except when Amigo took away the agony by sucking me off, Tuesday afternoon.  Whew!

Tomorrow, I'm going to try something a little different.  I'm going to use a condom.  I doubt it will work, but it's worth a shot.  My theory for this strange experiment:  What if I'm getting TOO MUCH pleasure?  I think I've mentioned that fucking him is amazing, and there's no masturbation that could equal the satisfaction and pleasure I feel from screwing his ass.  Maybe it's just too good.....??

So, I'll slip on a condom and see if that takes it down a notch.  I've nothing to lose.  I can always peel it off, right?

So, I have been thinking about this problem occasionally, and I remembered a hook-up I had a long time ago.  When I actually researched this particular hook up, I realized it was a VERY long time ago.   The guy that I hooked up with, I nicknamed "Sparky", and just for fun, I thought I might ask him about my problem.  After all, he had masturbated me with clinical precision, and gave me possibly the most intense orgasm of my life.

Here is how our e-mail convo went:


On Feb 25, 2016, at 18:44, 
<slcjackguy@yahoo.com> wrote:

Hey man.  I don't know if you remember me.  From this old e-mail, I guess I met you in July of 2009.

You know your way around the male anatomy and it showed.  

So, you said something to me that day, and it's stuck with me.  You said that you could tell if I was about to cum, and then you said your could stop it by "doing this" and then I think you kind of stroked my dick head, which was super sensitive, but did make my impending orgasms subside.

Is this right?  Did I understand wrong?

I've been thinking about this a lot lately, as I'm having trouble achieving orgasm during anal sex with my boyfriend.  It feels great, in fact almost too good.  I'm wondering if my dick head is being stimulated so much that I'm having trouble cumming.

So, if you have any insights, I'd be happy to hear them.

Let me know, even if I'm totally remembering it wrong.  The whole session with you is a little bit of a blur.  I still believe the orgasm you gave me was about the strongest I've ever experienced in my whole life!

Jack.


From: Fun Guy 
To: slcjackguy@yahoo.com 
Sent: Thursday, February 25, 2016 7:32 PM

I do remember Jack at least I think I do it was a while ago. Lol

So your having a problem cumming or cunning too fast? Is it during intercourse ? I would need to understand more. 

Sent from my iPhone



On Feb 26, 2016, at 06:34, 
<slcjackguy@yahoo.com> wrote:

My problem is that during intercourse, (I'm the top) the feeling is amazing.  Better than any masturbation toy, or hand I have ever experienced.  The sensations are mostly concentrated on the head of my cock as I thrust in and out.  It feels great, it feels fantastic, but for some reason does not result in climax, or orgasm.

I never seem to have this problem with getting a BJ, or jacking off.

Weird, huh?  Less pleasurable activities always lead to orgasm.

I was just wondering if you knew if there was such a thing as "feels TOO good."

Also I remember when you jacked me off, you said you could delay my orgasm by fisting my cockhead, or something like that,  You didn't verbalize it, you just showed me.  It sounded weird at the time, but you certainly did seem to know what you were doing!



Fun Guy Today at 4:36 PM
To slcjackguy@yahoo.com


So you could be over stimulated. Or trying to hard to force something to happen. You might just need stimulated in other ways or it could be just as simple as you're not ready. So many things factor into your climax. 

Have you looked at maybe getting yourself a toy for while you are topping your boyfriend? Maybe you could try a cream to reduce the stimulation to your cock head ( yes that is a real thing). Or depending on how long you take maybe your boyfriend could try doing what I did. 

You are correct in that I massaged the head. It is just a technique not many know. 

Really I could say a lot but it's hard to talk about this in an email. 


So, wish me luck everyone.  And yes, I know that I still have some readers left, and thank you for the comments on my posts, and the private e-mails you send to me.

Jack.

Is there a sex doctor in the house?