The Drama Continues. I hope not.

Okay.  I have learned my lesson.  I can't let the drama of others, especially Amigo affect me.

AND, I hope not to blog about it in the future.

However, here's the latest.

Amigo sent me an e-mail, saying he wanted to come over and stay the night and talk face to face.  I had pretty much decided it would probably be best just to end it.  I received some advice from TwoLives,  which you can read in the comments of my last post.

So, then I got a surprise phone call from Amigo.  We had a nice chat, and I started to change my thinking.  I told Amigo he could come see me, and we could sort things out in person, but he wasn't going to spend the night.  He had to go back home.  He had to cut the phone call short as his class was starting, but promised to call afterwards.

He called later and told me he was going to take the train to SLC to come and talk, then would go back home.

I picked him up.  After three weeks, of being apart, I'll have to admit, I found him more handsome that ever.

When we got to the house, we had some dinner, and talked about everything.

I asked him to clarify his e-mailed response to me;

Ok, no problem so this is over. I will start to ask to my friends in (Another Town) and start to go back to the church. I hope the best to you and I will walk alone to next step!!! 

As I suspected, it was a knee jerk response to my rejection of the idea of living together.  He said he was really stressed out and should not have sent it.

We talked about his future plans, and his expectations.  I talked about how I had been holding off or at least cutting down on hooking up because I didn't want to bring anything (STDs) back to him and I let him know I wasn't going to commit to a totally monogamous relationship.

He didn't give me the green light for random hookups or anything, but he didn't say it was off the table if we continue to date.

So, after all of the talking, my heart started to melt a little.  Picture the Grinch, when he saw all the Whos enjoing Christmas.

I told him he should not take the train back.  He should stay the night if he wanted.

He wanted.

Of course.

I took a boner pill and we cuddled on the couch.
Soon enough things heated up on the couch and progressed to the bedroom.  I won't go into details, but the Amigo was totally satisfied, and it felt good to satisfy him.

We returned to the couch and tried to watch "Chasing Amy" on Netflix.  I say tried, because a movie on my couch is like a sleeping pill to the Amigo.

I don't think we have ever made it through a whole movie where he didn't fall asleep in my arms while watching, and last night was no exception.

We had a peaceful snugly night, and then I satisfied the Amigo one more time before getting him to the train station at 6:10 AM so he could return to his job and classes at school.

So, for now, I think that things are back to normal, for me.  He's got some struggles now, and I don't know what his solutions may be, but he's a big boy, and I'm sure he'll figure it out.

I'm sorry that I got caught up in the Drama, and needed to vent/share, but I really do appreciate the support and comments.  I'm going to try and take my own advice and not get caught up in this stuff again, and let the drama pass by for a day or two before I react to it.

Thanks for reading.  Whew.