Dude 483. 21-year old

I get into trouble when I have days off.

Yesterday I wasted soooo much time looking on Grindr for a hookup.  I really wanted to suck some young dick, but by the end of the day, was getting horny myself.

Grindr was a huge bust.  Nobody hit me up, and I started messaging any and everything that looked remotely hot.  All to no avail.

I also had today off, and I was resolved to NOT spend the whole day trying to hook up.  I would look briefly, the jack off and be done with it.

But, as fate would have it, a 21 year old messaged me via Adam4Adam.

He had NO photos on his profile.  He listed his age as 21, was 5'3 and 130 lbs.  I think the only other thing he mentioned is he was HIV neg.

But we struck up a conversation and he invited me over.  I asked what he wanted to do.

"Milk you."

"By hand, mouth or ass?" I asked.

"All" was his reply.

I quickly showered, grabbed condoms and lube and headed to the address he gave me.  While en-route, he added the apartment number.

I arrived and tapped on the door.  I heard some clanking on the other side, as though bottles were being cleaned up and put in the trash.  It took awhile for the kid to come to the door, and after a couple minutes, I assumed that he'd seen me through the peep hole, and changed his mind.

I walked back down the hallway, heading for my car, when I hear his door open then close again.  I debated on whether or not to keep going or go back and knock, so I went back and tapped on the door again.

This time the kid answered, and invited me in.

Because his description was so vague, and he had no photos to offer, I really had no idea who I would be meeting.  It turned out to be a nice, fairly handsome, smaller build Native American kid.  We went to his somewhat messy bedroom and he undid my pants, and started to give me head, except the suction was so strong, I almost turned inside out.

I corrected him and we messed around that way for a bit, and then I pulled him off and undressed him and went down on him.  Despite that he was really small, he had a slightly larger dick than me.  Uncut and closely cropped pubes.  Other than his trimmed pubes, he was quite smooth.

We traded oral a couple time, and I fingered his tight hole.  I asked if he had lube, but he answered that he didn't.  No matter, I had one packet of lube and two condoms, which I fished from the pocket of my Levis.

I lubed his hole and tried to finger him.  Damn.  It was tight.

He was moaning and begging me to kiss, and I finally relented.  I prefer neck and ears, but when I sucked his nipple he gasped and quivered.

We fondled, fingered and rolled around a bit before I put him on his stomach, and lubed up his hairless butt.  I had some difficulty putting on the rubber, but once I did, I mounted him and he seemed to relax under my weight, and asked me to hold him.

I wrapped my arms around his small frame, and ground my hard dick in his crack, making token jabs at his hole, and when I had teased enough, I reached down and guided the head to the target and pushed.  He pushed back, gasped then squirmed away a bit.

I kept up the assault and he finally wriggled his ass onto my dick.  I wish I knew what he was experiencing (I've never really bottomed) because he was both crawling away, and backing on to my dick at the same time.  He was writhing in pain, or was it ecstasy or that weird confusing stimulus where you can't decide.   Nonetheless, he was gripping my arm and pulling me into him trying to kiss and moan, and crawl away and work his ass all at the same time.

I'm afraid I didn't last too long despite him squirming all around, and me being constricted enough that I really couldn't get my fuck on, and I said, "fuck, I'm gonna cum...." and just like that, I unloaded into the rubber.   As I did, he expelled my cock, then quickly impaled his asshole back onto it and held it there.

"Did you cum?"  He asked.

"Yah," I panted.

It was a lot quicker than I hoped it would be, but I was relevied to have shot my frustrated wad.

I rolled us over, still engaged, and said, "are you going to cum for Daddy?"   I gripped his dick and started jacking.

It took him a while to cum, and my softening dick was expelled, but I did what I could to help the kid get his nut.  I nuzzled, and stroked, and he then guided my finger back to his anus.  I fingered, he stroked and finally he unloaded onto his his chest, and one watery squirt made it up to his cheek.

We both cleaned up, and I followed through on my offer to give him a ride to work.

As we drove, we chatted and he was a nice kid, who had to grow up fast, moving out of the house at 15 years old.  He was also supporting his little brother who was now 19. and living with him.  He kept telling me he'd like to get together again, and he enjoyed me.  I told him about "Amigo" and said that getting together regularly probably wasn't in the cards because of my relationship situation.

Later in the afternoon, as I sat down to write this post, I tried to pull up our A4A conversation and take some screen shots, but all messages and trace of him had disappeared.  I guess he either blocked me or deleted his profile.

This photo doesn't mean anything, but I had to add
some sort of photo, right?

A weird Grindr day

It's been just over a month since I posted.  Perhaps an update is in order.  The Amigo and I are fine.  We have some of the same challenges.  Immigration.  School.  I'm not sure if there is any other resolution than marriage that can solve these issues, but I'm not ready for that just yet.

Also, there has been improvement in the bedroom.  I've managed to acheive orgasam 6 of the last 7 times we've had sex.  I wish I could pinpoint what I'm doing differently, but I can't really put my finger on it.  If I had to guess, I would say, that I just get in there and try to get off.  I try not to pay attention to the Amigo's satisfaction, and just do what feels good for me.  I'm pretty sure he's happier with this situation as well, and when I'm finished using his ass for my pleasure, I make sure he cums too.

I've made several good decisions not to hook up.  I'm trying to break that habit and stay more faithful.  But, I stumble occasionally.  I try to keep it with the regulars, like the 20 year old neighbor kid who hits me up every couple of months, and comes over at dawn for a little fun, or the super hottie that lives a mile away, who I find kneeling in his living room, giant dick sticking strait up from his handsome fit torso.  He loves to suck me off, and it doesn't take long as I look at him fisting his beautiful dripping cut 8 incher, as he works my hard dick with his talented mouth and tongue.

But, I don't usually blog about the repeat offenders (even though I've got a couple hot regulars)

Instead, I'll tell you about my weird "Grindr Day."

It started off innocently enough.  Turning on Grindr in the morning (I had a light work day) and started by chatting it up with a 24 year old hairy guy staying at a nearby hotel.  Although he wanted a BJ, he wasn't available until the evening.  I rarely hook up in the evening,  Just not interested.  Nothing more came of this conversation.

After a noon meeting, I had to take a package to UPS, but that didn't stop me from hitting up another skinny 24 year old, who apparently lives in my "hood."

Much to my surprise, he accepted my invitation to suck him off, and he invited me over.

I was there in less than 5 minutes and found him reclined on the couch, shirtless despite the fact that he told me he was going to crack the door open and start jacking off, I found him with pants on, and I had to work them off, before I started sucking his fat dick.

He had a nice dick, and his pubes were almost all shaved off.  He had tiny balls, like mine that were also shaved.  His dick was soft at first but I got him semi-erect in a short minute.  I then worked off one whole pant leg to allow me better access.  I was enjoying myself, but I'm not sure the kid was.  He didn't say anything, and didn't moan.  He didn't put his hand on my head, so I just tried to enjoy his dick.  After a few minutes, I released his other leg from the pants, and he pulled his legs up, and  gave me full access.  His balls kept pulling up into his abdomen, and his taint was hard, so I thought I was doing a good job and he would be cumming in my mouth soon.

But, I sucked and sucked, and stroked and stroked.  He mentioned "face fucking" in our text messages, and I told him that was fine, as long as the didn't get too aggressive.  15 minutes into the BJ, I was getting tired, and asked him it he wanted to stand and face fuck me.  Sometimes a guy needs to be in control in order to cum, so I figured this would speed things along.  After all, I had an international package to drop off to UPS for work!  I couldn't afford to stay and suck his cock all day!

The kid face fucks me for maybe 3 minutes before giving up, and saying he was exhausted, because he'd been up all night.  I had been doing all the work, and he was exhausted?
It was kind of a weird situation.  He had a security camera at the front door, with a little screen.  I guess a more modern day peep hole.  At one point he used the TV remote and the giant screen TV was broadcasting the signals of "front door" "back door" and several other cameras around the house.  I'm guessing he was a druggie, with a nifty security system,  and I took this as my cue to quit while I was ahead, and bail.

I told him I had to get going for work, and washed the saliva from my hands in the nearby kitchen sink before I fled.

He seemed disappointed but didn't say anything.  I had been sucking his dick for 20 minutes and it only went fully hard a couple times, and then semi-erect for the remainder.

Oh well.  My lips were numb, but it was fun just the same.

Later that day, I had another errand at FedEx, and use the opportunity to turn on grinder once more.

I saw another kid, 18 years old who had a very brash profile and photo. It intrigued me and just for fun I sent him a message. Do you want car head?

I went inside the Federal Express office and conducted my business, when I returned  to the car, I found the 18-year-old had responded to my message. He was down, but he wanted a package of cigarettes.

I was hesitant, but I thought what the hell? I've never done this before. I mean, I've never exchanged money or goods for dick.

So after obtaining his cigarettes,  I went to meet him in the parking lot of the nearby library.



He rode up on his bicycle and he looked nothing like his photo.

In his photo he looked like a clean-cut hard-ass with an attitude. When he rolled up on his bike he looked a little dirty, a little femmy, and his hair was died a strange combination of henna and purple.

He did have a super cute face, but again, he looked a little grungy.

I asked him if he wanted to get in the car and go somewhere more private, and he said he didn't know what to do with his bike. A quick look around and he decided to hide it behind some bushes, and lock it to the chain-link fence. He got in my car, and I started to back up. That's when I noticed he wasn't only dirty looking, but he smelled bad too. Not super bad, but certainly a bath had not been in his plans for a day or two.

He had me drive to a nearby neighborhood that he was familiar with, but by this time I was already second thinking the whole situation.

I had not asked him my usual three questions, about being STD free, HIV-negative, and a non-smoker.

The fact that he wanted me to buy him cigarettes already answered one of the questions!

Somehow, my big head won the debate going on in my mind, and I told him I had gotten cold feet and didn't want to do this anymore.

"Why ?" He asked me, in a disappointed tone.

I told him that he looked very young. And I was very nervous. I said he could have the cigarettes anyway, and it had all been very fun and exciting but I couldn't go through with it.

I took him back to the library and dropped him off where he had his bike stashed. He sat in the car and wanted to talk for a little bit, and I was fine with that, he seemed like a nice guy, but he was a little bit campy, and nothing like the character I had in my mind when I saw his picture.

So, it was a weird day. I got together with two guys, sucked one dick, and didn't get any cum from either of them.

Dudes 480 & 481, two cuties in an hour.

I guess I use Gridr exclusively now, and why not?  It's like bait fishing.  Just kick back and wait for the cuties to come to papa.

Well, that's how it happened on Saturday anyway.

One kid hit me up early in the morning, and asked me if I wanted head.  I was headed to the gym, and afterwards I have the Saturday 9:AM-like-clockwork hour-long phone call with my Dad, so I told him I might be free later.  I figured I'd never hear from him again.

Later, as I was going about my day, another kid hit me up.  He also sent me a pic of  his dick.  His beautiful dick!  He didn't ask for pic, he just said that he "really wanted to shoot a load this morning...."

So, I invited him over and to my surprise, he said he was on his way!

In the meantime, the first kid hit me back and asks if I'm free, and am I still just looking to get sucked off?

So, nothing has transpired yet, but it looks like one 20-year-old hottie is coming over to let me suck him off, and then, I go directly to a 26-year-old's house to get a blow job, after I'm good and horny?  Woo-hoo.  It's shaping up to be a great weekend!


The first kid shows up and he's way cuter in person that in his Grindr pic.  His Grindr profile says something about "trans" and "genderfluid" so I wasn't sure what to expect.  I try to keep an open mind.  When he showed up he was a tiny guy, with a tight body, deep masculine voice, wearing glasses, very much looking the hot fit nerd, and he was super polite and thankful.  He already had a big boner in his tight skinny jeans (like a 26" waist), and damn, what a big dick on that little body!  I had him sit, and I peeled off all his clothes so I could see more skin.  He loved the BJ, and kept telling me how great it was.  He pawed at me enough so I lowered my pants, and my excited dick made an appearance.  The kid was nice enough to give me some hand action, but didn't offer to suck me.  I'm good with that.

As I was servicing his hot dick, he asked if I ever bottomed.  "Um, no, sorry!"  Even if I did, I can't imagine getting ripped in two by that thing.  It was hard as steel too.

I got him close once and he pulled me off, and told me that I was going to make him cum.  I told him that was the point, right?  I went back down on him.  He made all the right noises, and was a little unsure of whether to guide my head, force it down, or just how to participate, but it didn't matter much to me, I went for it and brought him to climax and he let loose in my mouth.

There wasn't much volume,  so it wasn't difficult to keep it in my mouth, and I kept him writhing in ecstasy for a full minute with delicate swirls of the tongue, feeling him twitch and convulse with waves of post orgasmic sensitivity.  I love that feeling.  Whether I'm giving or receiving that pleasure, is good for me.

I cleaned up the kids semi soft cock with my mouth, and he didn't even need the terrycloth towel standing by.   The whole ordeal was over in less than five minutes.  Five minutes of great fun for me.

I ushered him to the door, with my own raging hardon in my pants, and I messaged the first kid back and told him I was free now, and he wasted no time in giving me his address, just 10 minutes away.  Sometimes I just love geographical based hook-up apps for only showing people who are close by.

So I head over to the 26-year-old's house, and dang if he wasn't cuter than his pic too.  In fact, cute as a bug in a rug.

I stepped inside the 1950s rented bungalow house.  He was actually just renting a bedroom from a friend.  The living room had gorgeous hardwood floors, but not a stick of furniture.  Just a pad on the floor, and I think a TV too.  The kid's bedroom was small, but had a futon bed, so I peeled off my brown Levi cords, and boxers, and had a seat.  The kid went right to work and started nuzzling my hairy crotch, taking in all the smells, before going down on me.  He was taking his time to enjoy this, and I didn't mind a bit.  The kid got himself all worked up too, and took off his lounge pants revealing a nice pink 7" hardon, that was all tied up in some kind of contraption.  A cock and ball harness perhaps?  I'm not sure.  He stroked his dick, and went back to blowing me, but I peeled off his shirt for good measure, and lay back to enjoy the show.

This wasn't the kids first time, obviously, and though his suction was a little weak, his variety was spot on, and he spent a good 10-15 minutes in every nook and cranny of my crotch.  I told him I was getting close, and the kid then focused on making me cum.  Good boy.  No more sniffing around, just good earnest sucking and tongue action, then .........Bam, bam!  I blew my wad into his mouth, and he milked me until the convulsions stopped.  Man I love sucking dick then getting mine worked over good.

I asked him if he wanted to cum.
"If you want me to......." he replied.
"Sure."
"Where do you want me to cum?"
"On my leg."

The kid got up and started working his harnessed tool.  I did what I could to help, by grabbing his tight balls, working his nips, and clawing at his head and naked back   He also took a few more turns sucking the final drops of sperm from my softening dick, and 3 minutes later, his eyes rolled back in his head, he gasped, and several warm ropes of white cum were splattered on my leg, and even on my dick.

When he calmed down from his orgasm, he searched his dirty clothes hamper in vain for something to clean all the cum from me.  It was fun watching him agonize each piece of clothing to see if it was worth violating, and turning it into a cum rag.  Finally he skipped out of the room and returned with his bath towel, and mopped up the mess.

I dressed, and we exchanged pleasantries, the then I bailed.  Spring was definitely in the air!

Dude 479. Young kid, nice ass.

Grrr.  I'm pissed at myself.

Since meeting Amigo, I've not had anal sex with anyone else, and why would I?  Amigo is fantastic, and I love it, although I almost can never achieve orgasm that way.  But that's another story.

I needed relief Monday morning and no one was hitting me up on Grindr.  I was about to take matters into my own hands, while on a lunch break working from home, when a message from a pictureless,  almost empty profile appeared.

We both got right to the point and soon I was driving over to some 18-year-olds apartment, to fuck and get a bj.  I knew nothing about height, or weight, or race.  That fact alone made the hookup all the more exciting.

On the drive over, his profile must have updated, as a photo appeared on his profile.  I was relieved.  He looked to be a fairly cute guy, although not much showed of his body.  I also sent him another message, "you are over 18, right?"  He confirmed it.

The last thing I need is for Chris Hansen to jump out at me, and tell me I'm on TV.

When I finally found the apartment, in the midst of a nice wet March snowstorm, I was greeted by a very short (Like 5'1") and just a bit cherubic latino kid, with a tuft of bleached reddish hair on his mop.

He led me to his bedroom and climbed up onto his giant bed.  Maybe he had a ladder or step stool on the side, as the surface of the bed was easily 4' off the ground.

I shucked my coat, hoodie, shoes and finally jeans and climbed up too.

While on my knees, the kid started sucking me as my cock had escaped my boxers through the fly.  The BJ was good and got me hard fast, so I stood up , steadying myself on the ceiling.  I managed to get the boxers down, and for good measure, peeled off my t-shirt.


The kid followed suit, and peeled off his pink briefs, and started jacking off while sucking me as I stood.  I fell to my knees, and we continued the bj for just a minute more, before I turned him around.

His ass was perfect, and small and round.  Not too fat, and not too flat.

I grabbed the condom I brought and opened the package, and put it on my hard prick.  Next I grabbed the little package of lube that I brought,  and fumbled with it in the darkness, finally tearing it open with my teeth.

I dribbled some lube on the waiting ass, and some on my dick, the whole time the kid was bent over fisting his dick in anticipation of the fuck.

I lined up, and rubbed my dick all around his hole in order to completely distribute the lube, and then he reached back, and guided it to his target.  He took over from there and rocked back onto me and let out a moan, as I slipped inside him.

From there, it was kind of a blur, and the animal part of my brain and primal instinct kicked in and soon I was buried to the hilt, and the kid moaning, "yah daddy, fuck me with your bick cock."......or something like that.

We fucked for only a few minutes when I felt the orgasm coming.  It was headed straight for me and there was no stopping it.  I told the kid, that I was going to cum, and he started moaning and bucking too, and then boom, it happened, and I unloaded into the rubber.  Because of the dulled sensation, I was able to keep pumping him as I was cumming and getting in as deep as possible.

When it was all finally over, I pulled my still hard dick from his ass, and jumped down from the bed and asked where I should deposit the used condom.

He showed me to the bathroom then disappeared into the apartment.

I looked at the condom and it was a little messy, so I grabbed some tissue paper and used it help me remove the rubber, as the kid appeared with a small garbage sack.  I'm guessing he would take it all out to the dumpster after I left.

I asked him later if he lived there alone, but said he still lived with his folks and they were at work.

I dressed and bailed, and went back home to finish my work.

This morning, when I turned on Grindr, to fetch the photos and write this entry, I see that he messaged me again.

Right after the fuck;  "Thanks.  That was awesome"
and a few hours later "Want to fuck again?"

Dude 478. Classic Blow and Go

I happened to be in another city for work, and turned on Grindr.  I love being the new meat.

As this was a college town, I got hit on by a few 18-24 year olds, who were all super flakey.  One guy however got right to the point.  He was horny, he could host, and he gave me his location.

Using Grindr's built in location service I was able to find the guys location okay, I guess.  Actually, it led me to a church parking lot.  The guy messaged me and said he was at the house next door.

I went to the door, and it was cracked open.  I knocked and didn't hear anything so pushed the door open and stepped through the doorway of the split entry home.

"Hello?" I said.

"Psssst."  I briefly saw a shadowy arm and finger beccon me down the stairs and around the corner.  It turned out to be an average looking guy, who led me to his somewhat messy room.


He wasted no time and I got to my knees.  He first undid his belt, then pawed at me to removed my winter coat, hoodie and finally t-shirt.  "Ooooooh Daddy" he cooed.

I'm good with Daddy.

He had a nice dick, perfect for sucking and it ooozed pre cum during the entire BJ.

My pants were down around my knees by this time and the guy sucked my dick twice, although I suspect that hornieness just took over and there was no real attempt to pleasure me.  This was all about him.

He got a little forceful a couple times, and I went with it, but let him know when things got uncomfortable.

After several minutes of back and forth, the grabbed my head and face fucked a little building to jack rabbit speed, and all of a sudden jammed his dick to the back of my mouth and held it.  I notice the taste change from pre-cum to full on semen, although the volume wasn't much to talk about.  I surmised that he had cummed, and I tried to slowly entertain every sensitive nerve in his cock, and make his orgasm last a while, but it was too much for him and every attempt at stimulation was thwarted.

Afterward, I had to search for my many layers of clothing and pull up my pants over my hard dick.  I thanked him and bailed and he thanked me too and said he would like to do it again.

We will see.

Two-fer.

I guess this counts as Dudes 476 and 477, although I didn't even cum.

I was at the office, but left Grindr on.  This guy hit me up, and said he was going to go visit his suck buddy, and did I want to join him?

Sounded like fun, so why not?

Well, it took awhile to put it all together, but I finally saw the guy pull into the cock-sucker's apartment complex.

I watched him disappear around the corner, and up the stairs to the apartment number he previously sent to me.  I sent a Grindr message asking if it was okay to come up.  He said yes.

I went up the stairs and the door was cracked open, so I just went in and locked it behind me.  I could see some legs on the bed in the adjacent bedroom and figured they had already started.

Yah, it was a little weird.  A little awkward.  A little out of my comfort zone, but I went with it just the same.

I pushed the door open and saw the handsome 26 year old black guy, reclined on the bed, getting serviced by a small latino guy, in his 30s or 40s.  The Latino, was curled up in a fetal position, nursing on my new friend's dick, one hand on the cock, the other shielding his face from view.

I watched for a minute, then decided to join my friend on the bed.

I lowered my jeans and boxers to my ankles and hopped up onto the bed next to the duo.  After watching for a minute more, I decided that I needed to participate, not just watch.

I thought maybe some aggressive behaviour might be appreciated, so I grabbed the cock sucker's hair, and tried to pull him off my buddy's dick, and steer him to my own hard dick.  I guess the Latino guy didn't want to, as he resisted, until I let go of the hair and just used my hand to move his face into my direction.

He finally acquiesced, and started sucking me.  He was doing a great job, but I couldn't let my generously buddy's cock go unattended to so, I grabbed a handful and jerked him off.  I really wanted to sucke it but couldn't figure out how to get into position to do it.

I finally got it figured out and wiggled into position and we all three were getting what we wanted.  For me, having my dick sucked while sucking one was a little too exciting, and I felt myself working my way toward orgasm, so I steered the cock sucker back to his original target.

I was now on my knees, and asked my new friend if he sucked dick?  He nodded and opened his mouth and I inserted my penis.  Dang!  This wasn't bad at all.

Once again I felt myself climbing to Mt. Orgasm, and I was trying to figure out what to do.  Should I just cum in this guys mouth?  Should I warn him?

Before I could make any decision, my buddy unexpectedly pulled off my dick and his face twisted up and he let out a few gasps.  He was cumming hard in the Latino's mouth.  The Latino just kept sucking and milking and I was denied any cum shot show, but the power of the climax was played out on the black kids face and he pumped his load into the Latino's mouth.  It was a hot scene, and I was left empty handed.

When he was done, the fully clothed Latino guy, jumped up off of the bed, and headed to the en-suite bathroom and my new buddy fumbled for his pants.  I was kind of hoping that the Latino guy would make an encore performance and suck me off, but he made no attempt to re-enter the stage.  I was still fumbling with my own clothes when  the black guy unceremoniously bailed, without saying goodbye to either of us.  You know how some guys get after cumming?  Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Shy.

I finally assembled myself and said "Gracias, Adios" toward the bathroom door.

"Okay, tank you" was the meek reply from the other side.

I let myself out, and messaged my new friend.  He didn't respond back, but he didn't block me either.

Dude 475. Hot Twink

I'm not going to look a gift twink in the mouth.

I was just doing my thing at work and for fun, I left Grindr going on my phone.  I'm at the hardware store when suddenly a flood of dick photos start blowin up my phone.

He's real horny and has to leave for work soon.

As soon as I express interst, and send him a face pic, he blows up my phone with a dozen hot face, body and underwear pics.

So I agree to check out at the hardware store, and drive the 10 min to his apartment.

He keeps me waiting another few minutes out side the door, and then lets me inside.  Wow!  I'm blown away by this kid.  He's tall and lean, well, downright skinny.  He's got a moppy head of hair, and he's cute as fuck, and a bit camp.

He apologizes for the messy apartment, although spartan, it wasn't that messy.  He leads me to his bedroom and again apologizes for the mess, and again, it wasn't that messy.  I've been to other kid's bedrooms.  I've seen messy, and this isn't messy.

I make a little small talk and start to undo his pants, as I know he's short on time, and then he says that he doesn't want to do this unless he can suck me too.

Well, I certainly don't want to be impolite, so I stand up, kick off my shoes, and lower my jeans and boxers at the same time. Since I'm now standing and he's sitting on the mattress/box springs on the floor, his face is kind of at dick level, so I took the path of least resistance, and walked up to him and guided him to my soft dick.  It didn't stay soft for long though.

After a few minutes, I need my turn at the teat, and I knelt down and pulled off his designer undies.  OMG, out flopped a perfect boy cock.  I'm not sure how this skinny little guy had such a nice fat cock, but he did.  I gobbled it up.

He slid back onto the mattress, and beckoned me to join him.

"Don't you have to leave soon?  I asked.

"Oh, I called work, and told them I was running late.  I have some time."

He wanted to do lot more than just an NSA BJ.  He asked if I liked to kiss.  I told him about my indifference, but seemed disappointed, so we engaged in some heavy kissing.  He totally melted in my arms when I kissed and nibble his neck and ears.   I was amazed that my arms wrapped all the way around his skinny torso, almost twice.  He was so slender, and I felt so manly handling him, despite the fact he was 6"-8" taller than me.

We sucked, we licked.  We sixty-nined.  He serviced me and I almost cummed, so I pulled him off.  I went back down on him as he lay back and stroked my hair, and in about 5 minutes his amazing prick stiffened and he announced his impending orgasm.

Bam, bam bam!  He fired off into my mouth and throat.  I had to gulp and swallow to keep up.

As we both searched the room for our various article of clothing which were all over the place, he made small talk.  He was so sweet and polite, and kept grilling me about being Mormon, (I'm not) being married (I'm not) and being straight.

'Dude, I just had your dick in my mouth.  I hardly think I'm straight."

"I think you're straight but just like dick, or maybe you're bi."

Well, with an awesome cock like his I'm sure even straight guys would like it.....hahaha.

He showed me out, and I heard the room mate clunking around in the next room, but I never saw him.

The kids apartment is close to my office.  I sure wouldn't mind taking mid morning breaks at his house for the next few months while I'm on this project!

Dudes 473 & 474. I'm a bad boyfriend.

I had an work errand to run, early in the morning.  Like I often do, I fired up grinder while in the new neighborhood, because I love the "fresh meet" syndrome.  It didn't skip my mind that my errand was at the nearby University, and the hotties online would all be younger.

So, it wasn't a big surprise when I hooked up with an attractive 27 year old, and gave him a blow job at his apartement.  He wasn't a uni student, but he was youthful and handsome nonetheless.  He said he didn't have much time, and had no car, and had to be downtown soon for work.  I offered to swing by, suck him off, and drive him to work.  He accepted my offer.

Where was this service when I was 27?

Then, I got to work, and lo-and-behold, I was super horny.

Grindr to the rescue.

I wasn't picky, and some guy said if I came over, he'd suck me off and let me cum in his mouth.

Bingo.

That's what happened.  And I was pleasantly surprised.  He was a very nice, and not bad looking guy.  I doubt he was 41, but he could have been.  He blew me and swallowed as promised.

I know there aren't a lot of  hookup details in this post.  Actually, I'm struggling with the whole hookup thing.  I did promise myself to post all of my hookups here.  Perhaps as a form of self-punishment to ease my guilt.

It's clear what I have to do.  I have to tell the Amigo about all these hookups.

I don't wan't to.

Uuuuuugh.

First hookup of the day

First hookup of the day

Hookup #2

Hookup #2

Hookup #2

Dude 473. I'm amazed these young hotties want to get with me.

So, I was feeling a little deserving of an orgasm, after yesterday's failure to get-off with the Amigo.  He didn't even offer to suck me off.  I guess I could have asked.  But I hate to make my problem his problem.

Nonetheless, I guess I'm using that as justification for getting some on-the-side again.

This morning after the gym, I turned on Grindr.  This guy hit me up and ultimately invited me over for mutual oral.  This was after an exchange of face pics, which I am now much or open to do.  I would say that about 40 percent of the guys I send a face pic, are still interested after I do.  I'm a pretty average looking guy, and hey, we all want handsome ones.  I get it, and I'm okay with it.

So, I shower and get ready for work, but make a detour to this guys place.

I would say he was in his late 20's, trim build, not really muscled, but not fat either.  He had much longer hair than in his picture, which was still damp.  He must have just showered.  I appreciate that.

I let him know via Grindr message that I had arrived and he let me in the front door, shirtless and wearing some blue sweatpants.  He made an apology for the messy apartment, as he led me to his messy bedroom.

He lay back on the bed, while I took off my jacket, then shoes and pants.  I went to him as he reclined on the bed, and tugged at his sweatpants, and ultimately his American Eagle boxer briefs.

His dick was already hard, with a Chaplin mustache style patch of trimmed pubes.  His cock was a similar size to mine but had a pronounced downward curve or "hook" on the end.  I've experience this kind of curved cock before and I like it.

The downward curve fits nicely at the back of the throat, heading down the esophagus instead of up towards the roof of the mouth, by the uvula and the gag reflex.  This is the only type of dick that I can truly deepthroat, which I did right away, and it felt great.

It was only a matter of seconds before I felt his balls, about the same size as mine, pull up tight and disappear into his body, and I feared that he was going to cum really quick and put an end to our fun before we even got started.

Perhaps he feared this too, because he invited me up to join him on the bed and we rolled around a bit, grabbing each other's dick with our hands.

We took turns blowing each other, and he suggested 69.

He lay on his back while I straddled him. This time it was all wrong as the downward curve of his cock was now headed the wrong way in my mouth and prohibited me from taking it as far as I would have liked.  I kept on task anyway, savoring the moment, sucking what I could comfortably and playing with his hairless taint, and brushing his butt hole occasionally.

After a few different positions, I found myself laying back and getting serviced the way I like, and told him I was going to cum soon.  He got an evil look in his eyes, peering out from his shaggy-dog-like long hair, and he went back down on me sucking out my cum and making me shake with delight.  He kept on task for most of it, and swallowed my ejaculate, save the last squirt which went dribbling down my still hard wet dick.

The kid didn't miss a beat and wrapped his hand around my dick and cleaned it off, only to lube up his own staff with it.

I got up and he replaced me on the bed, and I proceeded to repay the favor, although truth be told, I wasn't that horny, and the thought of sucking his dick with a little of my own cum on on it did not really appeal to me in that moment.

But I persevered, and it wasn't that bad.  There must have not been much cum as I couldn't really even taste it, and I sucked him in earnest to try and get him off.

Even though his nuts were still tight up against his body, I could tell this wasn't going to be super quick, and then the kid asked me if I would do him a favor.  Would I lick his nipples?

Well hell ya!  Anything to help out.

He had the most imperceptible nipple I've ever come across.  Then again, nipples in general are not really on my radar, so I guess I hadn't noticed until he asked me to lick them.  It was almost like they were painted on!  Well, I'm exaggerating, but they were smallish and flattish, and I couldn't get a rise out of them, but he seemed to enjoy what I was doing.

The whole time he fisted his dick, and worked himself up to cumming.  Then, he pulled me off his tits, and guided me to his dick and said, "Oh, eat my load man!"

Yah.  No.  I wasn't into it.

But, fair is fair, and he swallowed mine, so I put on a brave face and went back down on him and BLOOEY!  Jet after jet of cum went into my mouth.  I wanted to head for the bathroom sink and spit, or maybe spit into my sock, but I panicked and just decided to bite the bullet.  Or should I say, swallow the bullet.  Gulp, and the problem disappeared.  The little devil on my shoulder said, "there, there, now.  That wasn't so bad, was it."   And it truly wasn't.  No bad flavor or anything.

Had that happened BEFORE I cummed, then I would be all over that moment and savoured every drop, but like many of us asshole guys, the post ejaculatory me just isn't the same horny fucker as the pre-ejaculatory me.

So, I awkwardly searched for my clothes as the kid put on his sweat pants and investigated what he thought was a noise he might have heard, meaning his "roommate" might be home.  Turned out to be a false alarm and he showed me to the door.

Off I went, skipping to work, and dang if the sun didn't appear through the clouds as I drove away.

Just a little update.

Hello faithful reader, if there are any left.

My life marches on, and I'm enjoying everything so far.

A few weeks ago, there was a change in my household.  Amigo has moved in.  Officially.

He was here just about every night anyway, so, what the hell.  I was a bit reluctant, but I did/do see the practicality of it.  The only downside is that if we ever want to split up, he has no apartment to go back to.  I guess I'll burn that bridge when I cross it.

The great sex, without me achieving orgasm still is plaguing me.

Over the President's Day weekend, Amigo had Sat, Sun, Mon, & Tues off from school/work.  That means we had great sex every morning for four days.  I didn't cum once, except when Amigo took away the agony by sucking me off, Tuesday afternoon.  Whew!

Tomorrow, I'm going to try something a little different.  I'm going to use a condom.  I doubt it will work, but it's worth a shot.  My theory for this strange experiment:  What if I'm getting TOO MUCH pleasure?  I think I've mentioned that fucking him is amazing, and there's no masturbation that could equal the satisfaction and pleasure I feel from screwing his ass.  Maybe it's just too good.....??

So, I'll slip on a condom and see if that takes it down a notch.  I've nothing to lose.  I can always peel it off, right?

So, I have been thinking about this problem occasionally, and I remembered a hook-up I had a long time ago.  When I actually researched this particular hook up, I realized it was a VERY long time ago.   The guy that I hooked up with, I nicknamed "Sparky", and just for fun, I thought I might ask him about my problem.  After all, he had masturbated me with clinical precision, and gave me possibly the most intense orgasm of my life.

Here is how our e-mail convo went:


On Feb 25, 2016, at 18:44, 
<slcjackguy@yahoo.com> wrote:

Hey man.  I don't know if you remember me.  From this old e-mail, I guess I met you in July of 2009.

You know your way around the male anatomy and it showed.  

So, you said something to me that day, and it's stuck with me.  You said that you could tell if I was about to cum, and then you said your could stop it by "doing this" and then I think you kind of stroked my dick head, which was super sensitive, but did make my impending orgasms subside.

Is this right?  Did I understand wrong?

I've been thinking about this a lot lately, as I'm having trouble achieving orgasm during anal sex with my boyfriend.  It feels great, in fact almost too good.  I'm wondering if my dick head is being stimulated so much that I'm having trouble cumming.

So, if you have any insights, I'd be happy to hear them.

Let me know, even if I'm totally remembering it wrong.  The whole session with you is a little bit of a blur.  I still believe the orgasm you gave me was about the strongest I've ever experienced in my whole life!

Jack.


From: Fun Guy 
To: slcjackguy@yahoo.com 
Sent: Thursday, February 25, 2016 7:32 PM

I do remember Jack at least I think I do it was a while ago. Lol

So your having a problem cumming or cunning too fast? Is it during intercourse ? I would need to understand more. 

Sent from my iPhone



On Feb 26, 2016, at 06:34, 
<slcjackguy@yahoo.com> wrote:

My problem is that during intercourse, (I'm the top) the feeling is amazing.  Better than any masturbation toy, or hand I have ever experienced.  The sensations are mostly concentrated on the head of my cock as I thrust in and out.  It feels great, it feels fantastic, but for some reason does not result in climax, or orgasm.

I never seem to have this problem with getting a BJ, or jacking off.

Weird, huh?  Less pleasurable activities always lead to orgasm.

I was just wondering if you knew if there was such a thing as "feels TOO good."

Also I remember when you jacked me off, you said you could delay my orgasm by fisting my cockhead, or something like that,  You didn't verbalize it, you just showed me.  It sounded weird at the time, but you certainly did seem to know what you were doing!



Fun Guy Today at 4:36 PM
To slcjackguy@yahoo.com


So you could be over stimulated. Or trying to hard to force something to happen. You might just need stimulated in other ways or it could be just as simple as you're not ready. So many things factor into your climax. 

Have you looked at maybe getting yourself a toy for while you are topping your boyfriend? Maybe you could try a cream to reduce the stimulation to your cock head ( yes that is a real thing). Or depending on how long you take maybe your boyfriend could try doing what I did. 

You are correct in that I massaged the head. It is just a technique not many know. 

Really I could say a lot but it's hard to talk about this in an email. 


So, wish me luck everyone.  And yes, I know that I still have some readers left, and thank you for the comments on my posts, and the private e-mails you send to me.

Jack.

Is there a sex doctor in the house?

Dude 471, an improvement.

I'm not sure why I felt entitled to a BJ today, but for some reason I did.  Valentine's Day is approaching, and Amigo is going to want my affection, placed squarely in his ass.

I came homo for lunch and turned on Grindr.  The words on my profile pic were clear; "I want hed 2day."  When someone hit's me up, I know they are not looking for a coffee date.

So, I didn't mince words and soon the cocksuker was on his way.  I would feed him his lunch today.

The scene was a typical blow and go, like I've experienced many times before.  I put on a favorite Sean Cody porn, and an detached while my new husky cock sucking buddy sucked me off.  The BJ was pretty good.  I both appreciated and detested that Husky was chewing a piece of gum.  Although it just about guarantees fresh breath, his saliva was a little less viscous, acting more like a solvent than a lubricant, and there was just a hint of cool minty-ness that dulls the sensation just a bit.

Nonetheless, as agreed I was able to ejaculate into Husky's mouth and get some much needed relief.   I must say, that despite the mediocre to good bj he gave, the final finish was top notch, keeping my cock in his mouth, and ever-so-gently coaxing out all the orgasm.  It was so much better than jacking off.

Husky refused the handy towel to spit in, instead opting to swallow, and even taking in the remaining milt around his mouth, instead of wiping it off.  Good boy.  It's nice to see some young lads taking pride in their work these days.

Dude 470. Really bad BJ

I should have just stayed at the office for lunch, instead of going over to the 22 year-old's apartment for a quick BJ.

I asked if he swallowed.  He said yes, but then he finished me off with a bad hand job, my cum trail left quagulating on my hairy tummy.  

When I asked him for some paper towels to clean up, he smiled and returned with a roll of thin toilet paper.  What a messy clean up.  There was a lot of excess saliva to mop up too.  It quickly overwhelmed the cheap toilet tissue.

I'm going to chalk it up to a language barrier issue.  I should have just used my limited spanish to confirm everything.

Well, another lesson learned.  Sometimes it's just better to take matters into your own hands.

Dude 469. Finally, someone lets me suck their dick!

Honestly, I haven't been trying THAT hard.  To put down Grindr that is.  To stop checking out the nearby dudes when I'm in another part of town.

Today, I had to have my tire checked for a slow leak, and while waiting, I fired up the little yellow app.  Brrrrrrrpppt.   A guy only a couple hundred yards away hit me up, and started a convo.  Now, to be fair, the tire shop is only a mile from my house, so it's not really a new part of town.  And the guy that hit me up, I've seen his profile dozens of times.  He's never hit me up before, so I'm not sure why now.  Perhaps it was the immediate proximity.

We chit chatted a bit, not really sure where this might go.  His profile did not indicate that he was either into, or not into hooking up.  He showed his face, which is often a sign that the profile's owner is more interested in dating, or at least coffee, (before the sex).

So, I just asked if he liked oral, and he responded favorably.

When my car was finished a few minutes later, I drove across the street to his apartment building, and he met me at the parking garage gate, and led up to his unit.  I mean his apartment.  I would see hit unit shortly.

He was a skinny guy, with a sexy accent.  Not sure if it was European, Middle Easternn or Latin, and I didn't ask.  He knew the drill, and dropped his lounge pants as he sat on his couch.  His crotch was completely shaved (dang!) and his dick loooked a little smallish, but 30 seconds of sucking and it was soon a respectable 5 inches and it fit perfectly in my mouth.  No worries of molor scraping.  It was perfect for sucking and he pulled me off after only a few minutes and asked me to take my pants off.

I pulled my jeans and boxers to my ankles and let him have a tug on my semi, before I knelt and went down on him again.  Only a minute later he pulled me off and went to stroke me.

"Were you about to cum?" I asked.

He nodded.

"I want you to cum," I said, and he nodded again, and lay his head back and resigne himself to the orgasm and the end of our brief time together.

I went back down on him again, and he let out a sigh/moan.  "Keep Sucking" he said, like I might accidently stop at this point.

He ejaculated a small wad into my mouth, and I was able to taste a little on my tongue.  It certainly wasn't voluminous enough that I had trouble swallowing, and I gulped it down, after trying to work out every last bit.

My new friend, lay back savoring the orgasm, eyes closed as I stood and pulled my boxers, then levis over my now raging boner.

When I had my pant sup, and parka back on, he instructed me on how to let myself out of the parking garage.

I do love giving a quick BJ to slender young guys, that end in orgasm.  I hope he puts me on his "Favorites" list.

Dude 468. Another random dude sucks me off.

I think I've rounded some kind of corner, and I need to turn off Grindr, just because I'm visiting a new area of town.

That's been my M.O. lately.  Not because I'm horny to hook up, but more out of habit and for entertainment purposes.

And I guess I could turn down any offers of head that come my way, but gee,  an NSA blow job sounds pretty good most of the time, even if I'm not horny.

The kid wasn't far, and I had the keys to the empty condo nearby.

Why not.

No need to go into details, except the kid was white, 27, 5'8" and 180.  That means chunky, but he wore it well.  He was also sporting a short beard when he arrived.

I was on the couch with my pants around my ankles, when he pushed open the door, I had left cracked open.  We each said hi, and that was the only English spoken for the next 8 or 9 minutes.

The twink porn on my phone and his excellent BJ skills had me cumming in his mouth after he had worked me over some.  He was especially adept at keeping me in his mouth and tickling out every last electric pulse of my orgasm, that left me panting and convulsing.  I must say that I do my part by being fairly vocal, if
not with words, then grunts and moans.   I'm not bad with the non verbal either, like grabbing hair, and firmly holding his head while I unload my gob.

We said our thank-yous, and our good byes, and that was that.

I need to make an effort to stay off hookup aps, and craigslist for entertainment sakes.  I really, really want to save it all for Amigo, but it's tough.  The only time our schedules collide in the morning hours are on the weekends, and I'm not willing to be totally celibate during the week.

Baby steps, I guess.  Hopefully, the next time I'm horny and feel like hooking up, I can read this post and remember how I'm feeling right now.