Sunday, May 11, 2014
Good Grief. I just dicked the tiniest little man. He wasn't 5'8 and 129, He was more like 5'5" and 98 lbs.
And I have NO IDEA what the hell is going on with my body theses days either.
Take this guy. The chat on Grindr was brief. Hell, his profile name was "I'm a bottom." I show up and he's not particularly attractive. He skinny, almost skeletal, and yet, my dick stayed hard enough while fucking, even WITH a condom on. AND not only was I plenty hard, but I cummed! Yah, that's right, I got in, fucked for less than 5 minutes, got my groove, and shot my wad, all while wearing a stupid condom!
Now, why does my dick go limp when I'm with a handsome young man that I desperately want to fuck, and I'm absolutely rigid and ready with this emaciated skinny cigarette smoking dude who I really just want to bail on?
Intimacy is scary. I assume there is an emotional component with your handsome friend. When I decided to get serious about my boyfriend, I struggled a great deal with performance issues. It was pressure and guilt and fear getting in the way. He was patient and it passed after the second month. But, yeah... Intimacy is terrifying. I had to re-sensitize myself. - uptonking from Wonderland Burlesque
ReplyDeleteI think with a less attractive guy, it becomes all about fucking. And somehow that focus makes it hotter. With a beautiful guy you're all over the place. With someone you're not into, you're just right on it. At least that's how it seems for me. It is very common with me to have exactly the experience you did.
ReplyDeleteWhy hookup with an 'unattractive' guy in the first place?!
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