Friday, October 3, 2014
Well, I'm not sure how this will play out.
My new Amigo and test drive boyfriend had plans to spend at least Friday night together. At least that's what I thought the plan was.
Mid day Friday he said he texted saying: I am thinking if we can spend the night together. I will work late tomorrow!!!
I thought he was talking about working late on Friday, then taking the Frontrunner up here and spending the night on Friday. I guess I was wrong, as he came to SLC last night, after I went to bed and turned off my phone.
This morning I saw on my phone a slurry of e-mails and texts saying he was here, come pick him up. Then texts and voice messages saying come get him, and finally, he's taking the train back to Orem.
I'm sure he's pissed. I am at the least very confused.
After I re-read the texts from yesterday, I see now that's what he was talking about. He said he wanted to "spend the night together" when what he meant was he wanted to "spend tonight together". Subtle change of words but to me a world of difference.
I wasn't expecting him until Friday, and he shows up on Thursday!
Gee whiz. I feel sorry for the guy, and now I feel like a bit of a dickhead.
This was a good (even if unintentional) test of how much he likes you. Because it was a misunderstanding, he should be very forgiving. If he isn't (or wasn't, since this was two weeks ago), then he doesn't care enough to take the time to listen or understand.
ReplyDeleteThis awkward situation might turn out to be a good thing in the long run.