Dude 441 Wannabe boyfriend

Sunday, September 14, 2014


So, this is a little different than a hookup.  I'm not sure where to start.

A month and a half ago, I met this guy on Adam4Adam.  he was early 40's.  Latino.  Pretty good build, handsome.

Unfortunately, he was an exchange student in Provo.  I know.  A 40 year old Mexican exchange student?

Also, he doesn't have wheels.

He was dying to meet up, and I agreed, but my time was tight, as I was leaving for a 4 1/2 week vacation the following day, and I had a house sitter arriving from Witchita in the afternoon, but I agreed to meet for a coffee.

He rode the Frontrunner commuter train, an hour from Provo, and I picked him up at the station and we went for coffee.   I really liked the guy and he seemed to like me.  We were both disappointed that I had to cut our meeting short so I could meet with my house sitter.

A couple weeks into the vacation I e-mailed the guy and got no response.  A few days after that, I texted him and got a cool response, and the he told me he was kind of dating two other guys, and really was interested in and "eternal romance" and not in just sex, so if that didn't fit with my plans, he really wasn't interested.

So, I thought about it and although I am ready to start "dating" and would like to try my hand at a relationship, I certainly am NOT ready for an eternal commitment, especially with someone who I had only met for coffee, and had only spent 90 minutes together.

So, I didn't bother to reply.

Well, lo and behold, he hit me back later when I had only been back in town a day or two, and we started texting a bit.  His tone has changed dramatically, and he was now flirting like crazy, and making all kinds of mentions about wanting sex too.

Because of my work project, I was not free at all to meet during the week, but agreed to have him come over Friday night.  Because he would have to take the train back home, he agreed, but only if he could sleep over.

I didn't mind, and I figured that our date could certainly include a trial run at sex, to see if we are compatible in that area as well.  As much as I'm interested in trying out a romantic relationship, I certainly don't want it to be a sexless one, or a sexually challenged one.

"Amigo" sent me several excited texts during the week, and to be honest, his over eager tone put me off a bit, but I didn't' want to hold it against him, nor did I want to tell him to back off.  I just tried to respond in a little calmer, tone, one that wasn't filled with hopeful expectations.

I picked him up from the train station, Friday night, and drove back home.  He was all about kissing and making out, and we were both horny, but didn't do much but cop some feels as I grilled steaks and steamed some asparagus.

After dinner the plan was to get a movie at redbox and cuddle on the couch, then sleep together in the same bed, but while picking out a movie from the computer at home, our hormones got the best of us and pretty soon, I was fucking him on the bed.  Why not?  He wanted it soooo badly, and we both knew it was going to happen.  Might as well get it out of the way.

I didn't cum, which isn't a surprise, as I rarely do with a condom, but I was able to keep a hard-on, without the aid of Viagra.  He didn't cum either, but he thanked me over and over again.

We finally did pick a movie and start watching it, but didn't even make it through an hour of the DVD when I suggested bed.  I was tired.

Once in bed more passionate rolling around ensued, and both of us hard.  We did some grinding and he was up for another fucking, but I was too lazy to get up, spread out the fuck blanket, grab towels, fetch condoms and lube, so we just cuddled, kissed and finally drifted off to sleep.

Sleeping with someone new is never fully restful, but it wasn't too bad.

The next morning, we fucked again.  Same result, I didn't cum, and I did lose my hard on, but not before giving him a good pounding.  He especially liked the standing position, where he could watch himself getting plowed in my full length dressing mirror.

We showered, dressed and went to breakfast.  I was still horny, and took a Viagra before we left.  When we got home, I pushed my new friend to his knees and had him blow me.  He did a pretty good job, but had only enough stamina to stay on task for 5 minutes, and that's not long enough for me to cum.

I ordered him to the bedroom, stripped him and we messed around some more, but this time it was just hand jobs and oral, with me finally face fucking him until I felt my orgasm build, and I pulled out and sprayed all over his neck and chest.

I could feel him beating off frantically and he cummed a minute or so after me.

I used the towels to mop up the mess.  There was a lot of cum.  I had held off a couple days in anticipation of the date, and he said he only jacks off once or twice a week.

I don't know if this will be a long term thing.  I especially don't think this is an "eternal romance" but I'm willing to give it some time, and get to know the guy.  We' definitely gonna have to work on his BJ stamina, that's for sure.